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Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Uwu 

So I was rejected from the apartment I wanted b/c I dont meet the income requirement (I'm like $200-$300 short) 

I messaged them asking if I were to get a second job if they could reconsider, but I figured I was gonna sound desperate so they'd say no 

So I avoided checking my email out of fear and guess what, they responded saying yes, and ofc its filled by now 

Uwu
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Date: 27-07-2021 22:39 | Times changed: 1
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wug wrote:
oh well
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Date: 27-07-2021 22:45
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Imani wrote:
Omg sorry. You’ll find something else 
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Date: 27-07-2021 22:46
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Imani wrote:
Omg sorry. You’ll find something else 
It's my own fault 

I doubt myself to the point that its honestly a problem 

Fortunately though I'm still on the list, I feel like such an idiot tho I could of gotten this place if I wasnt like "oh they think I'm an idiot I'm too scared to check email uwu"
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Date: 27-07-2021 22:48 | Times changed: 1
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Sylvan wrote:
Income requirements are such a shitty thing like I get that it can be a necessity in a town/country with good renters protection and people do take advantage of others, like it happens but still, the concept is evil. 
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Anachronism wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Income requirements are such a shitty thing like I get that it can be a necessity in a town/country with good renters protection and people do take advantage of others, like it happens but still, the concept is evil. 
They wanna make sure you pay the rent I get it 

I mean I would certainly be struggling living pay check to pay check with my current job, I was gonna get a second job regardless so I'd have some wiggle room 

So I'm really pissed at myself I blew a possible chance and theres nothing I can even kinda afford to rent available atm
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Date: 27-07-2021 23:00
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Arthema wrote:
Man I relate to that too much
just ruining so many good opportunities that could've been good
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Date: 27-07-2021 23:19
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Abby wrote:
Man I relate to that too much
just ruining so many good opportunities that could've been good
I feel like such a fool but I learned that its alright to be persistent about what you want and you dont have to be scared about what others will think if you are. The worst that will happen is theyll say no, which is better than a missed opportunity 
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Date: 28-07-2021 01:46
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Barbarella wrote:
I've literally never had my income checked for a place to live...It sounds cruel.
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Date: 28-07-2021 02:22
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Anachronism wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
I've literally never had my income checked for a place to live...It sounds cruel.
Thats what happens when you apply to rental agencies 

I work with a girl who only makes $13 an h/r and has bad credit and she got a $900 a month house cuz she went through a private seller 

Private sellers are slim tho and I cant afford many rentals 

My boss trying to put me in for a raise tho and I've been applying for higher paying jobs.  Something will pop up 

But its ridiculous how hard it is to find an apartment in my area 
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Furby wrote:
nooo : ( i be like that too but not to that extreme
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Date: 28-07-2021 03:11
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Anachronism wrote:
Furby wrote:
nooo : ( i be like that too but not to that extreme
Ssomething I am really trying to work on 

That I asked at all if they would reconsider is a good step ten years ago I woulda never 

Trying to be more... assertive? Lol
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Furby wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Furby wrote:
nooo : ( i be like that too but not to that extreme
Ssomething I am really trying to work on 

That I asked at all if they would reconsider is a good step ten years ago I woulda never 

Trying to be more... assertive? Lol
good! thats good progress then 👍🏻
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Date: 28-07-2021 03:17
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Arthema wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Abby wrote:
Man I relate to that too much
just ruining so many good opportunities that could've been good
I feel like such a fool but I learned that its alright to be persistent about what you want and you dont have to be scared about what others will think if you are. The worst that will happen is theyll say no, which is better than a missed opportunity 
This is exactly what my coworker told me today but sadly my brain and anxiety still won't let me live : )))))))) but yeah very very true
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Date: 28-07-2021 21:02
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Abby wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Abby wrote:
Man I relate to that too much
just ruining so many good opportunities that could've been good
I feel like such a fool but I learned that its alright to be persistent about what you want and you dont have to be scared about what others will think if you are. The worst that will happen is theyll say no, which is better than a missed opportunity 
This is exactly what my coworker told me today but sadly my brain and anxiety still won't let me live : )))))))) but yeah very very true
Thats a trap... you can feel like ur always gonna be anxious but you dont have to be 

It's kinda like addicts who think "well I'm an addict relapses happen" as an excuse to use 

It absolutely takes practice and I still struggle with anxiety/self-esteem but it is something you can work through

I have faith in you, being chronically terrified is a shit way to live, its held me back 
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Date: 29-07-2021 01:03
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Arthema wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Abby wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
I feel like such a fool but I learned that its alright to be persistent about what you want and you dont have to be scared about what others will think if you are. The worst that will happen is theyll say no, which is better than a missed opportunity 
This is exactly what my coworker told me today but sadly my brain and anxiety still won't let me live : )))))))) but yeah very very true
Thats a trap... you can feel like ur always gonna be anxious but you dont have to be 

It's kinda like addicts who think "well I'm an addict relapses happen" as an excuse to use 

It absolutely takes practice and I still struggle with anxiety/self-esteem but it is something you can work through

I have faith in you, being chronically terrified is a shit way to live, its held me back 
Yep
the problem with me is that even though things are good it's just... soso bad
I can literally no longer control it
And I don't know where to begin to work on it
even with my bf being in this country, I'm literally alone in fighting those "demons of mine" and idk what to do anymore, not that I knew what to do in all those years before that I had that...
thank you, but the more time passes the more I feel like there might not be a way back for me out of this hole I made myself.
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