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my friend told me to start id'ing as a lesbia
Lean
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lean wrote:
just to try it it on and like idk.
i feel like i'd feel guilty if i realized i am actually bi after id'ing as a lesbian and they say that's the point but like
and the more i think about it the more confused i get like do i actually like men???? i've dated them before and it was.... fine. idk i have lots of Man Trauma so is it just that or am i actually not attracted to them.
ANYWAY sexuality is confusing.
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Date: 30-07-2021 21:51
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Raquelle wrote:
Idk i dont think any of it matters YOLO etc
if someone asks i usually say im a lesbian because i have only been with girls
but i crush on men too lol and wouldnt maybe mind dating one but its different for sure not the same
the feeling is not the same maybe
so yea i feel you
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Date: 30-07-2021 22:05
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ouch wrote:
If u wanna fuck a man, not a lesbian
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Date: 30-07-2021 22:07
Lean
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lean wrote:
ouch wrote:
If u wanna fuck a man, not a lesbian
no offence ouch but ur straight and if it was that simple i wouldn't be in this predicament. 
like ur right lesbians are not attracted to men but also i really have no clue if i am or not that's the prob.
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Date: 30-07-2021 22:19
Lean
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lean wrote:
Raquelle wrote:
Idk i dont think any of it matters YOLO etc
if someone asks i usually say im a lesbian because i have only been with girls
but i crush on men too lol and wouldnt maybe mind dating one but its different for sure not the same
the feeling is not the same maybe
so yea i feel you
yeah i think that's the problem i'm facing like sometimes i think about it and i'm like hmmm maybe but also whenever i try to disect my feelings with my lesbian friends they're all like ailish u sound like a fucking lesbian
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Date: 30-07-2021 22:20
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ouch wrote:
lean wrote:
ouch wrote:
If u wanna fuck a man, not a lesbian
no offence ouch but ur straight and if it was that simple i wouldn't be in this predicament. 
like ur right lesbians are not attracted to men but also i really have no clue if i am or not that's the prob.
No offence lean but u just gotta figure out if u wanna fuck a man or not, it is that simple. Lesbians do not want that, just call urself bi or whatever until u figure out
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Date: 30-07-2021 22:21
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Sylvan wrote:
Trying to figure out if your attraction to someone is sexual or romantic or both or platonic is such a hard thing to do sometimes. I wouldn't put to much pressure on myself if I were you, it's okay to change labels or ditch labels all together or just describe your sexuality in your own terms also you don't owe anyone shit when it comes to your sex life. 
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Date: 30-07-2021 22:25
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ouch wrote:
Sapphic
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Date: 30-07-2021 22:27
Lean
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lean wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Trying to figure out if your attraction to someone is sexual or romantic or both or platonic is such a hard thing to do sometimes. I wouldn't put to much pressure on myself if I were you, it's okay to change labels or ditch labels all together or just describe your sexuality in your own terms also you don't owe anyone shit when it comes to your sex life. 
i think like using a label is helpful for me personally like idc who other people think i wanna go to pound town with but like tossing my sexuality around when i was first figuring shit out years ago really helped me so idk if id'ing as a lesbian even if just to myself might help put some perspective on shit??? if that makes sense. but again it's just that guilt i feel even though i've not met a single lesbian who's been like "ur not allowed to do that."
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Date: 30-07-2021 22:29
Lean
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lean wrote:
ouch wrote:
Sapphic
i already id as sapphic but thank you for the suggestion.
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Date: 30-07-2021 22:30
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Melody wrote:
shit gets more wild if you id as nonbinary, but labels are just labels
if you feel like some dudes are attractive or somethin' then you could be bi with female preference - some internet folks also use the term homoflexible for that but there's a select group that finds it offensive. then tbf there's always people who disagree with your views so
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Date: 30-07-2021 22:33
ThomaStanaccount
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ThomaStanaccount wrote:
no one has the right to tell you what you should identify as. even if you want to got as unlabeled for now thats up to you and your friend shouldnt pressure you to do something you arent comfortable with. but i also want to say that if you end up changing labels, who tf cares. figuring out your identity can be hard and many people change their label over time. no shame in that.
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Date: 30-07-2021 22:38
Lean
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lean wrote:
brunhilde wrote:
shit gets more wild if you id as nonbinary, but labels are just labels
if you feel like some dudes are attractive or somethin' then you could be bi with female preference - some internet folks also use the term homoflexible for that but there's a select group that finds it offensive. then tbf there's always people who disagree with your views so
ya thank god i feel very comfortable as a woman otherwise i'd be having a complete crisis right now lmfaoooo.
i might try going unlabeled for a while although i think it'll be so hard for me to just like.... not associate myself as bi without an alternate label. also i would never id as homoflexible tbh.
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Date: 30-07-2021 22:44
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Raquelle wrote:
ouch wrote:
If u wanna fuck a man, not a lesbian
How can you know 😭😭😭 
i dont wanna fuck anyone atm
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Date: 30-07-2021 22:47
Thecellabration
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thecellabration wrote:
you've already got some good advice but i just wanna iterate it's okay to try on a label if you want to and then change your mind or realise that that wasn't quite right for you. i think that's very common. i called myself so many things before i settled on lesbian which is what ended up kind of immediately feeling correct for me (for now at least! but it's been like four years, significantly longer than any other label i ever had lol, so i'm pretty secure in it now)

also feel u about how labels are helpful like, personally. that's fine too, it was almost always important to me to have a word to describe my sexuality or whatever lol
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Date: 30-07-2021 22:59
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wug wrote:
Raquelle wrote:
ouch wrote:
If u wanna fuck a man, not a lesbian
How can you know 😭😭😭 
i dont wanna fuck anyone atm
then you are atm-sexual 
i know a guy named otto 
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Date: 30-07-2021 23:06
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