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To ask me to come meet her today when she stood me up yesterday bc she "slept all day" when she was the one deciding time and place, and declined my first request of friday bc she wanted "earlier." i opened half my thursday for this waste.

I wasted 80nok on buss
And several hours

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She's trying to blame it on me now.

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Nesta wrote:
She's trying to blame it on me now.

Bc i "had her number the entire time." (yes, to pay on vipps. Not the same as breaching into other ppls pms)

I choose to adress her in the app as one should without other decided upon. And she did not show up. I am not the one to blame here. I waited for 45 minutes. I left several messages. I wasted time and money, amd and she did not tell she was not coming.

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Such a bitchy move. I hope I never meet her

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The audacity to put the responsibility on me for why she did not meet

I, a stranger, is not her alarm clock

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Evey wrote:
what an irresponsible person

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rottomilko wrote:
wtf????

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Space wrote:
u deserve better

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Melk wrote:
wtf????

Yes I am still mad

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Actually im mad bc she message me this morning.. Like 24h after we were to meet like what the fuck

No apology
And bookis don't let u rate ppl

I have a big complain

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Evey wrote:
what an irresponsible person

Yesss immm fuuuming

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Space wrote:
u deserve better

Thanks. I think so too. That's why i said no, thanks, and just got all the books new today. Whoever i pass these down to, you're gonna get better.

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so she asked u to meet but u kindly refuse then later .. u decide to meet on a different day u both agree on but as her irresponsible ass was asleep she blames u ? 😀

i’m sorry but is she okay ?? i don’t remember that relying on others for ur own ideas will have to be their accountability to take for .. she’s very childish for that & i’m sorry u had to waste ur time on her :/

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Rouya wrote:
some people dont care

im assuming you were meeting to buy used books from her, or? based on the replies in the thread

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deaIs wrote:
so she asked u to meet but u kindly refuse then later .. u decide to meet on a different day u both agree on but as her irresponsible ass was asleep she blames u ? 😀

i’m sorry but is she okay ?? i don’t remember that relying on others for ur own ideas will have to be their accountability to take for .. she’s very childish for that & i’m sorry u had to waste ur time on her :/

I requested to buy the book as a 'meet' since we are in the same city from an app. I told her I could come pick it up. She replied the day after, AND said "you can come x time" without even discussing it. I saw it too late because we hadn't agreed on a time, and suggested I'd come after school today so around 15. She asked if I couldn't earlier, so I said I had all of thursday until 16 open. She said "meet me at 11 a x place" - alas not a place where I actually would go to 'pick it up'. I go there, leave about an hour before w buss to get to the place in time. I message her when I'm there several times. No reply. After half an hour I leave. I hear nothing from her that day. This morning she sent me "oh i slept all of yesterday can you meet today" i said "no thanks" and then she sent me "you had my number the entire time. would recommend calling if you're in a similar situation again : )"

and i'm just like WHAT THE FUCK

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i just want to write back so much " i suggest showing up at the agreed-upon time, and not attempt to keep strangers responsible for you not showing up."