Sylvan wrote:
My cousin got married this weekend and I didn't come because a) it was 100 people and there are anti vaxxers relatives attending, b) there was absolutely no vegetarian meal option, c) I hate dancing, d) I don't have 100 bucks to spend on the hotel and e) I was still a bit sick.
Anyway, my mum told me how people were bitching about me because I didn't come and then continued bitching about my career and why I only gave 50€ to my cousin (I'm fucking poor and I didn't eat anything at the wedding so it's 50 bucks without anything in return also I gave them a hand made card I spent 4hrs making) and why I don't have a boyfriend because my sister brought hers along.
I know it shouldn't bother me because they are all old bitter fucks who all killed the last of their braincells with booze, but it still stings. I really envy people who have a good relationship with their relatives.
Oh also an aunt complained why we never come see her after my uncle died. She literally moved to another country (Austria but still) and it's a 5hr drive also she didn't visit us either in all those years??