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anyone else who really struggle
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Pavlov wrote:
with connecting with people and getting comfortable around people out of fear of alienation and rejection, who because of it just ends up alienated and rejected, which then further validates the behaviour that made it so in the first place 
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Date: 23-08-2021 19:01 | Times changed: 3
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kagura wrote:
yeah i used to be, but not anymore because other people doesn't own me a shit and if they don't wanna be around me then they don't. glad if they choose to stay but i can't make them
and like i don't wanna be around people if i can't open and myself around them anyway
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Date: 23-08-2021 19:04
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disposable wrote:
yeah, i had that problem and problably have sometimes now aswell. i just got rid of those "friends" that made me feel like shiiiiittt and made new ones, some how

and also i try to think that if they don't like me as i am then i am better of alone. i like spending time with me myself and i
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Date: 23-08-2021 19:06
Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:
kagura wrote:
yeah i used to be, but not anymore because other people doesn't own me a shit and if they don't wanna be around me then they don't. glad if they choose to stay but i can't make them
and like i don't wanna be around people if i can't open and myself around them anyway
yea but then u still struggle with it ur attitude towards the problem is what has changed

i think like you do right now as well but its still very vulnerable to be completely alone in a place where everyone else is in a group
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Date: 23-08-2021 19:06 | Times changed: 1
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kagura wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
kagura wrote:
yeah i used to be, but not anymore because other people doesn't own me a shit and if they don't wanna be around me then they don't. glad if they choose to stay but i can't make them
and like i don't wanna be around people if i can't open and myself around them anyway
yea but then u still struggle with it ur attitude towards the problem is what has changed

i think like you do right now as well but its still very vulnerable to be completely alone in a place where everyone is in a group
i don't and i'm not alone and i'm not lonely
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Date: 23-08-2021 19:08
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Sylvan wrote:
Yeah

Not knowing what tf people want from me half of the time doesn't help either 
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Date: 23-08-2021 19:08
Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:
kagura wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
kagura wrote:
yeah i used to be, but not anymore because other people doesn't own me a shit and if they don't wanna be around me then they don't. glad if they choose to stay but i can't make them
and like i don't wanna be around people if i can't open and myself around them anyway
yea but then u still struggle with it ur attitude towards the problem is what has changed

i think like you do right now as well but its still very vulnerable to be completely alone in a place where everyone is in a group
i don't and i'm not alone and i'm not lonely
ah i see
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Date: 23-08-2021 19:09
Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Yeah

Not knowing what tf people want from me half of the time doesn't help either 
smh same
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Date: 23-08-2021 19:09
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Versailles wrote:
Idk i allow myself to get rejected and even reject ppl that makes me feel not good abt myself. Mindset is like i'm open and myself and ppl will come and/or go and it's aight. Better that than to not ppl in and miss a good friendship
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Date: 23-08-2021 19:09
Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Idk i allow myself to get rejected and even reject ppl that makes me feel not good abt myself. Mindset is like i'm open and myself and ppl will come and/or go and it's aight. Better that than to not ppl in and miss a good friendship
i am so sensitive to the feeling of rejection that i dont think i would be able to live like you
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Date: 23-08-2021 19:11 | Times changed: 2
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Versailles wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Idk i allow myself to get rejected and even reject ppl that makes me feel not good abt myself. Mindset is like i'm open and myself and ppl will come and/or go and it's aight. Better that than to not ppl in and miss a good friendship
i am so sensitive to the feeling of rejection that i dont think i would be able to live like you

I'm sorry, it's really a hurtful feeling and understandable u wanna avoid that  
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Date: 23-08-2021 19:18
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kagura wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
kagura wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
yea but then u still struggle with it ur attitude towards the problem is what has changed

i think like you do right now as well but its still very vulnerable to be completely alone in a place where everyone is in a group
i don't and i'm not alone and i'm not lonely
ah i see
i just think the only person in this world who is obligated to deal with my bullshit is my mother
my friends can choose if they want to be with me or not. and i don't really take it personally if they don't. it's just everyone has their battles and own lifes. it doesn't necessarily mean there's something wrong with you if they don't want you in their life right then
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Date: 23-08-2021 19:21
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Raquelle wrote:
Yea i struggle with that too
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Date: 23-08-2021 19:22
Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:
im looking forward to starving to death or being eaten by a predator as result of not being accepted into human civilization mhm mhm
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Date: 23-08-2021 19:28 | Times changed: 1
Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
im looking forward to starving to death or being eaten by a predator as result of not being accepted into human civilization mhm mhm
im like that one penguin in that nature documentary bye penguin society im gonna go die in the mountains now
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Date: 23-08-2021 19:30
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meilin wrote:
kagura wrote:
yeah i used to be, but not anymore because other people doesn't own me a shit and if they don't wanna be around me then they don't. glad if they choose to stay but i can't make them
and like i don't wanna be around people if i can't open and myself around them anyway
ahh yeah i relate to this. idk, i just don't really care how ppl view me anymore and if they don't like me or some part of me, lol goodbye. we probably wouldn't have gotten along anyway
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