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So I’m gonna try to make this short: I started living together with my (now) ex in may and broke up with him halfway june because he cheated on me. I was thinking if I made a mistake so I didn’t take any action to move out yet and we we’re on good terms again. He was saying things like he still cares etc etc. And from the beginning he wanted me to make a deal to not bring anyone over in our house as long as we’re still living in it and I agreed and didn’t say any more than that because I thought that was common sense. A few weeks ago he made a facebook comment to a a friend, showing his true colors and I realised that not a single thing that cones out of his mouth was true. I told him to not talk to me anymore and to leave me alone. I went away for a week and it was the first time I didn’t warn him when I’d be back. when I came back, I saw cigarettes ashes everywhere, glasses here and there, his pillow, ashtray and a glass in my room, my bed was moved towards the window etc etc. My ex came back with 2 other friends 15 minutes after I arrived and I asked him why there’s mess everywhere, he said he’ll clean it up and scoffed and asked who slept on my bed he said that davy slept on it (1 of the friends that came with him) he was trying to avoid talking to me and I asked angrily whether he couldn’t have asked for my permission first and he came with all kinda of excuses and left after that. No explanation or whatsoever. Later in the night, I found condoms on my bed, so I messaged davy to ask if he actually slept on my bed, he said that he never even went into my room. So he had sex with another woman on my bed. I wanted him to tell me the truth but he said that he doesn’t owe me anything etc and even tried to act like the victim, as always..I have to throw away that bed now, my brother said that he has to buy it lmao…I don’t know what to do now, I’ve never met such a disrespectful and irresponsible human being and he’s 29 y/o for god’s sake. I don’t know what to do I, he’s been ignoring my boundaries over and over. I’ve decided to just go back to my parent’s place next week. But I don’t want him to just get away with this…it’s so infuriating.
So I’m gonna try to make this short: I started living together with my (now) ex in may and broke up with him halfway june because he cheated on me. I was thinking if I made a mistake so I didn’t take any action to move out yet and we we’re on good terms again. He was saying things like he still cares etc etc. And from the beginning he wanted me to make a deal to not bring anyone over in our house as long as we’re still living in it and I agreed and didn’t say any more than that because I thought that was common sense. A few weeks ago he made a facebook comment to a a friend, showing his true colors and I realised that not a single thing that cones out of his mouth was true. I told him to not talk to me anymore and to leave me alone. I went away for a week and it was the first time I didn’t warn him when I’d be back. when I came back, I saw cigarettes ashes everywhere, glasses here and there, his pillow, ashtray and a glass in my room, my bed was moved towards the window etc etc. My ex came back with 2 other friends 15 minutes after I arrived and I asked him why there’s mess everywhere, he said he’ll clean it up and scoffed and asked who slept on my bed he said that davy slept on it (1 of the friends that came with him) he was trying to avoid talking to me and I asked angrily whether he couldn’t have asked for my permission first and he came with all kinda of excuses and left after that. No explanation or whatsoever. Later in the night, I found condoms on my bed, so I messaged davy to ask if he actually slept on my bed, he said that he never even went into my room. So he had sex with another woman on my bed. I wanted him to tell me the truth but he said that he doesn’t owe me anything etc and even tried to act like the victim, as always..I have to throw away that bed now, my brother said that he has to buy it lmao…I don’t know what to do now, I’ve never met such a disrespectful and irresponsible human being and he’s 29 y/o for god’s sake. I don’t know what to do I, he’s been ignoring my boundaries over and over. I’ve decided to just go back to my parent’s place next week. But I don’t want him to just get away with this…it’s so infuriating.
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