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sounds like you have a greater understanding of the feelings your drunk boyfriend brings up than the devastation caused by a volcano, but also the volcano is a distant threat so it's usual to not feel it as if you're in it.
anyways, the important part here is the issue with drunk men and your boyfriend. I think you should talk to your bf about you not liking being around him drunk.
I don't like drunk people either. They are harder to predict, cannot be trusted to act rational, might act out easier, etc.