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Limbs wrote:
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so bf is mad at me because i didn't help him pack his stuff today when he left to go home. so he forgot some stuff here. and he's mad because he takes care of me all the time and i don't take care of him, and nobody takes care of him

n like i was making us breakfast while he was packing, and we were already running late e so i just didn't think about helping him. n maybe i should have. but when i visit him, i assume i'm the one responsible for gathering my stuff when i leave so i didn't even realize i should help

am i just heartless?? i don't know, i feel really bad because i DO want to take care of him cuz i really care about him. but i don't know how i'm actually supposed to do that. like what that looks like and what he needs

he just came back to "pick up his trash" n left saying that it's fine, nobody cares about him anyway, and i'm a sweetheart but like. yeah. idk wtf to do. i asked him to talk to me but he doesn't want to
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Date: 28-09-2021 15:29
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kagura wrote:
wtf indeed 
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Date: 28-09-2021 15:31
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kagura wrote:
but okay well maybe he's stressed or something like that and it just brusted out like that
sometimes it happens so if this not how he usually acts i wouldn't worry 
but if he always gets mad over things like that... it's not normal 
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Date: 28-09-2021 15:35
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Limbs wrote:
this just came so out of nowhere?? this morning everything was fine, then i texted him saying he forgot his charger here n asking if he needs it soon (so i could mail it to him), then he started saying nobody cares about him and all this

and like, he said that he left his toothbrush on the side of the sink so that surely i would remember to give it to him before he leaves or remind him to take it, or something, but i don't do anything to take care of him. and i had NO idea i was supposed to like, look after his toothbrush?? what??
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Date: 28-09-2021 15:35
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Rotte wrote:
You are not a mind reader, if he really wanted and needed the help with packing, i think he should have asked. I can't see a reason to be mad at you about it at least.
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Date: 28-09-2021 15:37
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Pixel wrote:
honestly, sounds like he's having a bad day and is taking it out on you for no reason
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Date: 28-09-2021 16:00
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Aske wrote:
hope he talks to u cuz thinking that no one cares abt u and simultaneously pushing ppl close to u away is not a good combination
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Date: 28-09-2021 16:19
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Limbs wrote:
he apologized for being in a bad mood and thanked me for being an angel and stuff. so ig it might have not been about me really

and like i know it's fine now but how do people move on from these things?? like how am i supposed to go forward not feeling like a burden. cuz i know he thinks that he takes care of me all the time and i don't take care of him enough or i don't do my part in other ways. he's said that a few times now in times like this when he's gotten mad at me. n like. i try to do my part and be caring but i can't do it well enough and i don't know what to do anymore
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Date: 28-09-2021 19:32
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murdurur wrote:
i'm sorry to say this but he sounds like a shitty little manchild of exceptionally low value

but yeah also lol definitely not your fault. you're not being heartless at all, you're being normal
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Date: 28-09-2021 23:15
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Not your fault. He's being unreasonable right now. Talk w him when he's calmed down to resolve the issue, express how he made you feel, that you also understand his situation but in the end it isn't your responsibility. Agree that he needs to communicate better next time what he wants or expects of you, and im whsr capacity you're able to meet that. 
Date: 28-09-2021 23:33 | Times changed: 1
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Limbs wrote:
he apologized for being in a bad mood and thanked me for being an angel and stuff. so ig it might have not been about me really

and like i know it's fine now but how do people move on from these things?? like how am i supposed to go forward not feeling like a burden. cuz i know he thinks that he takes care of me all the time and i don't take care of him enough or i don't do my part in other ways. he's said that a few times now in times like this when he's gotten mad at me. n like. i try to do my part and be caring but i can't do it well enough and i don't know what to do anymore
You could always make a list of what you feel like you do for each other regularly and compare 
Date: 28-09-2021 23:35
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Limbs wrote:
i just feel like what's the point in being in this relationship, cuz i don't bring anything to the table, like he said he just gives and gives and i only take. n i feel like i'm just making his life worse. i can't have conversations at all so i'm a burden to everyone i talk to. fuck.
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Date: 29-09-2021 15:21
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Limbs wrote:
i just feel like what's the point in being in this relationship, cuz i don't bring anything to the table, like he said he just gives and gives and i only take. n i feel like i'm just making his life worse. i can't have conversations at all so i'm a burden to everyone i talk to. fuck.
His fault if he stays even tho he feels like u do nothing, so not your responsibility to make the choice
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Date: 29-09-2021 16:24
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