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how do narcissists react
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Limbs wrote:
if you respond to their tantrums by just saying they're being ridiculous right now? like "this isn't a rational thing to get angry about and we can talk when you've calmed down" type of thing

if we assume they're not violent, what would happen? is this a viable way to deal with narcissists or nah
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Sylvan wrote:
Probably more yelling and being angry.
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ouch wrote:
Depends? Dverybody different, but they will probably try to make ir life more shit 
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Limbs wrote:
it's not gaslighting if i do this, is it?? um actually now that i think about it it might be. man idk what would be the correct response. i know they're not trying to be constructive when they argue but i am...

but it really is true that they get mad about "nothing", like completely ridiculous things that aren't my fault at all. n they won't maturely discuss why they feel hurt by my actions, or whatever, they just go straight to yelling & accusing me
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Riddle wrote:
Why are you trying to argue with a narcissist in the first place?
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thecellabration wrote:
the only experience i have that's like. similar to that at least. just made the person more angry
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Limbs wrote:
Riddle wrote:
Why are you trying to argue with a narcissist in the first place?
they are a loved one, not like i can just ignore it
or well actually i don't know if the loved one is a narcissist, i'm just thinking about this as a possibility. cuz i know how a normal person would react but if they're a narc i don't wanna put myself in more trouble
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Melody wrote:
narc lmao
i can only imagine more anger. just tell they amazing but pls calm down ig, flattery sounds logical
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Riddle wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Riddle wrote:
Why are you trying to argue with a narcissist in the first place?
they are a loved one, not like i can just ignore it
or well actually i don't know if the loved one is a narcissist, i'm just thinking about this as a possibility. cuz i know how a normal person would react but if they're a narc i don't wanna put myself in more trouble
Treat them like you would a child. Just leave them alone until they calm down. Tell them you won't entertain their tantrums. Unless they are able to handle a conversation like an adult, do not bother too much.
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Hufsa wrote:
in my experience they wont listen lmao. ive tried and i ended up being the bad guy, usually they dont see their own flaws/mistakes and its always other people at fault. its a losing battle imo. id just let it be and not entertain their anger, frustrating as it is.
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Claire wrote:
you cant win with someone like that the best course to to disengage and if you cant disengage because its a parent lay low until you can move out 
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Limbs wrote:
Riddle wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Riddle wrote:
Why are you trying to argue with a narcissist in the first place?
they are a loved one, not like i can just ignore it
or well actually i don't know if the loved one is a narcissist, i'm just thinking about this as a possibility. cuz i know how a normal person would react but if they're a narc i don't wanna put myself in more trouble
Treat them like you would a child. Just leave them alone until they calm down. Tell them you won't entertain their tantrums. Unless they are able to handle a conversation like an adult, do not bother too much.
that's not how you should treat a child tbh. children need adults' support to work thru their big emotions that they can't control yet but yes an adult should be able to do that on their own
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kagura wrote:
i just ignore them. in the end of the day they will still think they won you somehow, but it doesn't matter. gives you more peace than fighting against them 
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Barbarella wrote:
Claire wrote:
you cant win with someone like that the best course to to disengage and if you cant disengage because its a parent lay low until you can move out 
this.
engaging will bleed you the fuck dry
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Riddle wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Riddle wrote:
Limbs wrote:
they are a loved one, not like i can just ignore it
or well actually i don't know if the loved one is a narcissist, i'm just thinking about this as a possibility. cuz i know how a normal person would react but if they're a narc i don't wanna put myself in more trouble
Treat them like you would a child. Just leave them alone until they calm down. Tell them you won't entertain their tantrums. Unless they are able to handle a conversation like an adult, do not bother too much.
that's not how you should treat a child tbh. children need adults' support to work thru their big emotions that they can't control yet but yes an adult should be able to do that on their own
If they are genuinely sad or upset over something then absolutely. But throwing a temper tantrum for attention? If a kid goes crazy over something silly like not being allowed desert before dinner, then a pretty normal reaction I would say would to put the child away until he calms down. For the record, I'm talking about children who know better and not like... babies.

Sometimes you just don't have the time nor energy to mess around. Adult or child, we shouldn't encourage or entertain narcissistic behavior.
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