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Sylvan wrote:
So recently a lot of people in like my extended family and environment have died or are dying and it's such a strange feeling if you aren't that affected because you didn't know them that well but everyone close to you is depressed and heartbroken. 

There's such a gloomy mood everywhere I go. 

How do you deal with it? I wanna be supportive but I'm not sure how. 
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Date: 18-10-2021 17:28 | Times changed: 1
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I think my family is emotionally not normal cus nobody seems to care much but if they do I just ignore it or I go to my room cus I don't like being around ppl in a bad mood 
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Date: 18-10-2021 17:33
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Rotte wrote:
Personally there was nothing someone could say to me, to comfort me, because there is nothing i or they can do too change the situation.

But I think it is so individual.
Just allowing people to feel what they need to feel and in the speed they are doing it in is important. And if someone reaches out, lend your shoulder or your help, i think it's the best you can do in those situations.
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Date: 18-10-2021 17:41
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Lornas127 wrote:
For the past 5 years I have been to approx. 4-6 family and friends funerals a year, with the youngest funeral I was aged 1 spanning from health, malpractice, murder, suicide, drugs etc.

The only way forwards is by looking up and have a continuous support system, I have 1 person as my therapist who I tell all family woes to, my boyfriend, but before that it was my cousin who was going through the same thing as me.

I have many things to occupy me, work, more education, art, socializing, walks etc, but the best thing is talking with your support system.

There has obviously been funerals of family that I am not as close to but I am there for my family - though remember this takes a toll on you to. Your self care gives them self care. Just be for the people by smiling, helping them with even the simplest things and offer an opportunity for them to talk to you - because as Ive said, talking is key.
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Date: 18-10-2021 17:50
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