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i have this online friend
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Limbs wrote:
that i've known for literally like over 10 years. we met on omegle when i was 13 & he was 14. i chat with him semi regularly nowadays but i just kind of feel like i don't really wanna talk to him at all? the conversations are just so boring and it's much more effort than than it is reward

him and i don't really have anything in common, except that we're both bi... he's the only lgbt person i know actually lol, but he likes going to the gym, gaming etc. we don't have any common interests

every time he texts me i feel like i don't wanna talk to him. like i just don't get anything out of it most of the time. i don't know what to do about this?? it would feel wrong to just ditch him because we go so far back, and also because he hasn't done anything bad, i just find talking to him boring... 
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Date: 20-10-2021 13:17
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Sylvan wrote:
I have a similar situation with an online friend, even though we haven't known each other that long (~5 years).

We met on the height of my depression and she has tons of mental health issues too, so it kinda connected us. 

Nowadays I barely write with her because she brings me down tbh. It sounds cruel, but the best thing for me was to stop the communication. 
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Date: 20-10-2021 13:26
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Rouya wrote:
i had an internet friend who i had been friends with since i was 13, we had even met each other two times and were best friends, talked every day... until we didnt. at a point i just stopped feeling like we had anything in common, and the longer it went on the more it became apparent. we were moving in different directions and he started annoying me and i found him boring to talk to and then we stopped talking

there's nothing wrong with stopping a friendship based on having nothing in common, since that's sort of what a friendship is based on. just because you go way back isn't a reason to continue a friendship, if you feel like you get nothing out of it, it's draining, etc.

you dont have to tell him you want to like stop the friendship, just let it fade out. that's not ghosting him either, just like dont force anything and see what happens
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Date: 20-10-2021 13:35
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