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Limbs wrote:
am i too sensitive if it really annoys me when people give me unsolicited advice about things, like telling me i should use X instead of Y, i should do this, i shouldn't do that, and so on. most of the time they have objectively valid reasons for saying those things, like the things they suggest are healthier or more effective etc. and they're just trying to help.
what i'm asking is, do i react negatively to that because of my shit brain or is that annoying for everyone
i hate it first of all because they're suggesting that they know better than me & they know what is best for me, which is just, annoying. but it also makes me feel like they're saying that the way i live my life isn't good enough, they see me as something to fix (because i'm not good enough), they think i don't know how to do anything right, etc.
am i too sensitive if it really annoys me when people give me unsolicited advice about things, like telling me i should use X instead of Y, i should do this, i shouldn't do that, and so on. most of the time they have objectively valid reasons for saying those things, like the things they suggest are healthier or more effective etc. and they're just trying to help.
what i'm asking is, do i react negatively to that because of my shit brain or is that annoying for everyone
i hate it first of all because they're suggesting that they know better than me & they know what is best for me, which is just, annoying. but it also makes me feel like they're saying that the way i live my life isn't good enough, they see me as something to fix (because i'm not good enough), they think i don't know how to do anything right, etc.
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