I'm a predator - Forum - Virtual Popstar

Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Jk

I just remember that I caused a lot of waves for finding a 19 year old attractive and ppl got kinda nasty, well no worries, I never pursued it cuz the power imbalances were something I couldn't shake

Well guess what I found a girl only two years younger than me who said she is down to hook up lmfao, far more age appropriate I think!

First girl I've banged in two years

Wish me luck

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liv wrote:
OMG

Private
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liv wrote:
as long as they r legal i don’t see a problem
my bf is 6 years older than me but i’m 21 so it’s all good

Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:

vives wrote:
as long as they r legal i don’t see a problem
my bf is 6 years older than me but i’m 21 so it’s all good

25 and 27

It's just a hook up, I told her I'm more experienced with men and she doesnt even care! I have a feeling we will be good friends no matter what, I just cant believe she is reciprocating!

Also 19 y/o was legal but a virgin so it felt wrong for me to puruse them (they are afab non-binary) cuz I'm more experienced plus idk just feel like were at different places I have more life goals in common w/ this girl

Private
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liv wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

vives wrote:
as long as they r legal i don’t see a problem
my bf is 6 years older than me but i’m 21 so it’s all good

25 and 27

It's just a hook up, I told her I'm more experienced with men and she doesnt even care! I have a feeling we will be good friends no matter what, I just cant believe she is reciprocating!

Also 19 y/o was legal but a virgin so it felt wrong for me to puruse them (they are afab non-binary) cuz I'm more experienced plus idk just feel like were at different places I have more life goals in common w/ this girl

nice !! hope it all goes smooth
also i understand how that would feel wrong, glad u found someone more in your range(?) !

Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:

vives wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

vives wrote:
as long as they r legal i don’t see a problem
my bf is 6 years older than me but i’m 21 so it’s all good

25 and 27

It's just a hook up, I told her I'm more experienced with men and she doesnt even care! I have a feeling we will be good friends no matter what, I just cant believe she is reciprocating!

Also 19 y/o was legal but a virgin so it felt wrong for me to puruse them (they are afab non-binary) cuz I'm more experienced plus idk just feel like were at different places I have more life goals in common w/ this girl

nice !! hope it all goes smooth
also i understand how that would feel wrong, glad u found someone more in your range(?) !

Again nothing may come of it

Hell maybe I'll be like "fuck this" and go back to men I mean we'll see

Shes cool tho shes considering starting a vegan food truck and is into hiking and snowboarding and tarot reading and stuff, also politically progressive I think

Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:

vives wrote:
as long as they r legal i don’t see a problem
my bf is 6 years older than me but i’m 21 so it’s all good

Also I dont have a problem with age gaps in and of themselves

But I think one ought to be wary of imbalances of power, like if you're more experienced or have more leverage or money or w/e you are at risk of taking advantage I think, despite intentions

Its a case by case thing imo

You and your partner are fine probably

I'm mostly still just so bitter ppl called me a sexual predator tbh lmfao

NeonBones
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NeonBones wrote:
oof that's kind of an overreaction
about just finding a 19 year old attractive

Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:

NeonBones wrote:
oof that's kind of an overreaction
about just finding a 19 year old attractive

I made a thread asking if it would be inappropriate to have sex with a 19 year old when I'm 8 years old than them

I decided that.... yeah no I'm not the right first time experience for them, it just didnt feel right

I think a predator wouldnt care so

NeonBones
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NeonBones wrote:

Anachronism wrote:
I think a predator wouldnt care so

Truer words have never been spoken

Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:

Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:

I was bold and asked if she wouldnt mind renting a room and was so down like I cant the whole thing was so smooth wtf

The older I get the bolder I get because I've missed too many opportunities and chances u gotta go for it sometimes

Private
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Arthema wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

NeonBones wrote:
oof that's kind of an overreaction
about just finding a 19 year old attractive

I made a thread asking if it would be inappropriate to have sex with a 19 year old when I'm 8 years old than them

I decided that.... yeah no I'm not the right first time experience for them, it just didnt feel right

I think a predator wouldnt care so

I mean you're not a predator because you have the morals to question it and think maybe that's not it, though it's... alright? you're both adults and all, just a little bit of a big gap...
but hey you found someone better for that, have fun and good luck

Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:

Abby wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

NeonBones wrote:
oof that's kind of an overreaction
about just finding a 19 year old attractive

I made a thread asking if it would be inappropriate to have sex with a 19 year old when I'm 8 years old than them

I decided that.... yeah no I'm not the right first time experience for them, it just didnt feel right

I think a predator wouldnt care so

I mean you're not a predator because you have the morals to question it and think maybe that's not it, though it's... alright? you're both adults and all, just a little bit of a big gap...
but hey you found someone better for that, have fun and good luck

It's not the gap I took umbrage with, it's their lack of experience... they're a virgin, never had their own place before, dont even have a credit card.... it just seems weird

Maybe a hook up but like they'd have to initiate and they havent, tho we still still are friends, haha, and I dont think it's weird

But this girl, even if it ends up being just friends, has been discussing business ideas with me, and has dating experience, like its just a better match

Still .... I cant believe shes down and we have chemistry omg

Private
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Arthema wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

Abby wrote:

Anachronism wrote:
I made a thread asking if it would be inappropriate to have sex with a 19 year old when I'm 8 years old than them

I decided that.... yeah no I'm not the right first time experience for them, it just didnt feel right

I think a predator wouldnt care so

I mean you're not a predator because you have the morals to question it and think maybe that's not it, though it's... alright? you're both adults and all, just a little bit of a big gap...
but hey you found someone better for that, have fun and good luck

It's not the gap I took umbrage with, it's their lack of experience... they're a virgin, never had their own place before, dont even have a credit card.... it just seems weird

Maybe a hook up but like they'd have to initiate and they havent, tho we still still are friends, haha, and I dont think it's weird

But this girl, even if it ends up being just friends, has been discussing business ideas with me, and has dating experience, like its just a better match

Still .... I cant believe shes down and we have chemistry omg

oh
oh yeeh it's nono
but this girl sounds like a great match yeah, hell yeah go for it
and yes being an adult really brings out the
boldness in you
I asked my current partner out and it's been a year now, I mean actually at the end of this month it'll be a year
damn

but yeah you 2 are actual adults, with experience and all
and yeeeeeee sounds like fun

Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:

Abby wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

Abby wrote:
I mean you're not a predator because you have the morals to question it and think maybe that's not it, though it's... alright? you're both adults and all, just a little bit of a big gap...
but hey you found someone better for that, have fun and good luck

It's not the gap I took umbrage with, it's their lack of experience... they're a virgin, never had their own place before, dont even have a credit card.... it just seems weird

Maybe a hook up but like they'd have to initiate and they havent, tho we still still are friends, haha, and I dont think it's weird

But this girl, even if it ends up being just friends, has been discussing business ideas with me, and has dating experience, like its just a better match

Still .... I cant believe shes down and we have chemistry omg

oh
oh yeeh it's nono
but this girl sounds like a great match yeah, hell yeah go for it
and yes being an adult really brings out the
boldness in you
I asked my current partner out and it's been a year now, I mean actually at the end of this month it'll be a year
damn

but yeah you 2 are actual adults, with experience and all
and yeeeeeee sounds like fun

The older I get the less i care for sure

But yeah I've dated ppl 6-10 years older, tho I was in my twenties (still am). Age gaps are a lil different w/ teens (even if they're legal!), especially when they're a virgin hooking up with a non-virgin, idk depends on lots of factors
Also congrats on the relationship! You gotta just go for it sometimes and be confident... biggest mistake I made was never doing that