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what if it's ok???
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scoff wrote:
yeah
what if it's ok to not have your entire life planned out and in order before starting a family?
what if it's ok to just say no to offers you get, even good offers?
what if it's ok to buy yourself christmas presents? 
what if it's ok to just be fine with what you have even if that sucks?
what if it's ok to sleep?
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Date: 15-11-2021 14:56
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thecellabration wrote:
good news! it is!
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Date: 15-11-2021 15:02
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Alam wrote:
I mean, if you're gonna have children you should definitely have your shit together but other than that, yeah.
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Date: 15-11-2021 15:10
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Melody wrote:
ok but it... is? i mean having kids is a big responsibility so u should have some stability in ur life to ensure their lives don't suck
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Date: 15-11-2021 15:27
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ouch wrote:
Alam wrote:
I mean, if you're gonna have children you should definitely have your shit together but other than that, yeah.
Yeas
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Date: 15-11-2021 15:41
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Meister wrote:
Its more than okay.
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Date: 15-11-2021 15:41
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ArianaGrande wrote:
don't have children please
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Random wrote:
I would say having your life together is very much needed when having kids, they stay...big responsibility.
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Date: 15-11-2021 15:44
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Meister wrote:
Random wrote:
I would say having your life together is very much needed when having kids, they stay...big responsibility.

You also need a partner that you can count on to help out.
There are a lot of bad partners that don´t help out in the house ir raising the kids. And there are a lot of bitter ex that uses the kids like a game piece against the other parent.
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Date: 15-11-2021 15:46
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Random wrote:
Meister wrote:
Random wrote:
I would say having your life together is very much needed when having kids, they stay...big responsibility.

You also need a partner that you can count on to help out.
There are a lot of bad partners that don´t help out in the house ir raising the kids. And there are a lot of bitter ex that uses the kids like a game piece against the other parent.
Well, I don't think partner is always needed (big help yes in some cases), but having a good support network is they key in my opinion. 
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Date: 15-11-2021 15:51
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Meister wrote:
Random wrote:
Meister wrote:
Random wrote:
I would say having your life together is very much needed when having kids, they stay...big responsibility.

You also need a partner that you can count on to help out.
There are a lot of bad partners that don´t help out in the house ir raising the kids. And there are a lot of bitter ex that uses the kids like a game piece against the other parent.
Well, I don't think partner is always needed (big help yes in some cases), but having a good support network is they key in my opinion. 
If one them takes care of the kid, clean the house, makes food day in and out the person will be tired. There are a lot of partners that comes home, and the leaves to hang out with their friends. If you are living together and have kids together you cant dump everything on one person.
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Date: 15-11-2021 16:02
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emogirrrl123 wrote:
Meister wrote:
Random wrote:
Meister wrote:

You also need a partner that you can count on to help out.
There are a lot of bad partners that don´t help out in the house ir raising the kids. And there are a lot of bitter ex that uses the kids like a game piece against the other parent.
Well, I don't think partner is always needed (big help yes in some cases), but having a good support network is they key in my opinion. 
If one them takes care of the kid, clean the house, makes food day in and out the person will be tired. There are a lot of partners that comes home, and the leaves to hang out with their friends. If you are living together and have kids together you cant dump everything on one person.
obviously, but aren't we on the subject of whether or not a person needs a partner to raise kids (spoiler: they don't) rather than good partners vs bad partners to raise a kid with. you most likely need help to raise a kid but it doesn't have to be a romantic partner living with you
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Date: 15-11-2021 16:47
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scoff wrote:
brunhilde wrote:
ok but it... is? i mean having kids is a big responsibility so u should have some stability in ur life to ensure their lives don't suck
i don't mean it like that - i do have stability: i have a home, i have a job (even if i might not in 12 months, but who knows that shit anyway?), i have money in the bank, i have my shit together
what i mean is what if i don't have to wait until i get rich? you know? 
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Date: 15-11-2021 17:47
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scoff wrote:
Random wrote:
I would say having your life together is very much needed when having kids, they stay...big responsibility.
i said "planned out and in order", meaning knowing what you wanna be doing for the rest of your life and how to get there, right? you can go back to school when you have kids, too... you can change careers, move towns, all that shit
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Date: 15-11-2021 17:48
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Meister wrote:
Sera wrote:
Meister wrote:
Random wrote:
Well, I don't think partner is always needed (big help yes in some cases), but having a good support network is they key in my opinion. 
If one them takes care of the kid, clean the house, makes food day in and out the person will be tired. There are a lot of partners that comes home, and the leaves to hang out with their friends. If you are living together and have kids together you cant dump everything on one person.
obviously, but aren't we on the subject of whether or not a person needs a partner to raise kids (spoiler: they don't) rather than good partners vs bad partners to raise a kid with. you most likely need help to raise a kid but it doesn't have to be a romantic partner living with you
No you don´t need a partner to raise children, i was talking about if you had a partner or an ex.
If you decide to get a kid on your own you still need a good of amount of people that can help you. Raising a child on your own can be really hard and draining. Everyone need a good amount of people and friends that can help out when things are hard.
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Date: 16-11-2021 07:04
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Alam wrote:
scoff wrote:
brunhilde wrote:
ok but it... is? i mean having kids is a big responsibility so u should have some stability in ur life to ensure their lives don't suck
i don't mean it like that - i do have stability: i have a home, i have a job (even if i might not in 12 months, but who knows that shit anyway?), i have money in the bank, i have my shit together
what i mean is what if i don't have to wait until i get rich? you know? 
Pls that's such an American thing to say
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Date: 16-11-2021 13:44
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