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i'm scared
Keres
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Keres wrote:
so umm i'm starting a new chapter in my life soon and it scares me.. i'm moving out and for the first time ever i'm going to live alone and it's scary since i had a very traumatic experience this summer. what i'm most scared of is that how this trauma could effect my living, can i be at peace in my home or will i be scared all the time that something happens to me?
  i really need the space and i want to move out but at the same time my mind just constantly tells me to be scared. and i am scared of other stuff also all the time but i don't wanna be scared and it's really annoying and exhausting

so please tell me some positive stuff about living alone if you want to, maybe that could ease my fear (:
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Date: 16-11-2021 22:15 | Times changed: 1
Kalypso
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kalypso wrote:
okay so i didnt have something traumatic recently happen to me, but i was sooooo scared before i moved out but it's very chill (unless ig if u r money struggling), and i didnt know what i was scared for. I was scared for not be prepared for something specific that i yet didnt know, bc i havent before lived outside of my moms home, but im so extremely happy for it, and my relationship to my mom is so much better now. some days it's tiring, bc of all that adult stuff u have to do but it's the best decision i have taken 
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Date: 16-11-2021 22:25
Kalypso
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kalypso wrote:
i live with roomies tho, and im very much an extrovert so i find so much happiness it in we when are all home and do stuff together, like my life quality have went so much up... also bc i eat better/healthier not living at home anymore. you control ur life a lot better, u can just do whatever you want without having to worry 
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Date: 16-11-2021 22:27
Keres
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Keres wrote:
kalypso wrote:
okay so i didnt have something traumatic recently happen to me, but i was sooooo scared before i moved out but it's very chill (unless ig if u r money struggling), and i didnt know what i was scared for. I was scared for not be prepared for something specific that i yet didnt know, bc i havent before lived outside of my moms home, but im so extremely happy for it, and my relationship to my mom is so much better now. some days it's tiring, bc of all that adult stuff u have to do but it's the best decision i have taken 
somehow knowing that someone else was scared too while moving out but also figuring out that it's not that scary helps. it helps my fear to know that once i've settled in the fear goes away. i really appreciate you telling something positive, it really does make me feel better, thank you <3
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Date: 16-11-2021 22:47
Kalypso
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kalypso wrote:
Keres wrote:
kalypso wrote:
okay so i didnt have something traumatic recently happen to me, but i was sooooo scared before i moved out but it's very chill (unless ig if u r money struggling), and i didnt know what i was scared for. I was scared for not be prepared for something specific that i yet didnt know, bc i havent before lived outside of my moms home, but im so extremely happy for it, and my relationship to my mom is so much better now. some days it's tiring, bc of all that adult stuff u have to do but it's the best decision i have taken 
somehow knowing that someone else was scared too while moving out but also figuring out that it's not that scary helps. it helps my fear to know that once i've settled in the fear goes away. i really appreciate you telling something positive, it really does make me feel better, thank you <3
lmao i also made some threads about it here on vp, and there was really nothing to fear at all
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Posts: 20203
Date: 16-11-2021 23:07
Keres
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Keres wrote:
kalypso wrote:
Keres wrote:
kalypso wrote:
okay so i didnt have something traumatic recently happen to me, but i was sooooo scared before i moved out but it's very chill (unless ig if u r money struggling), and i didnt know what i was scared for. I was scared for not be prepared for something specific that i yet didnt know, bc i havent before lived outside of my moms home, but im so extremely happy for it, and my relationship to my mom is so much better now. some days it's tiring, bc of all that adult stuff u have to do but it's the best decision i have taken 
somehow knowing that someone else was scared too while moving out but also figuring out that it's not that scary helps. it helps my fear to know that once i've settled in the fear goes away. i really appreciate you telling something positive, it really does make me feel better, thank you <3
lmao i also made some threads about it here on vp, and there was really nothing to fear at all

i know i'll probs post more moving stuff here since i get stressed easily, people here really can calm me down that's one of the reasons i love vp lovely community, don't know why i ever took a break from here.
but as you said there is nothing to fear at all, it's just my mind making up this stuff but hopefully it will calm down (:
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Date: 17-11-2021 13:49
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