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How does one apologize without
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ouch wrote:
Feeling sorry
cus me trying to pretend I care is a shitshow n very easy to look through so I think its better to have an emotionless apology but ppl don't like that n I just aha
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Date: 17-11-2021 17:13
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Fantasy wrote:
why are u apologizing if u don't actually feel apologetic?
I feel like u just shouldn't if u aren't really felling sorry cause it will always just come off as shallow and insincere (since it isn't lol)
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Date: 17-11-2021 17:16
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ouch wrote:
Fantasy wrote:
why are u apologizing if u don't actually feel apologetic?
I feel like u just shouldn't if u aren't really felling sorry cause it will always just come off as shallow and insincere (since it isn't lol)
Cus I wanna go to their house again without it being awkward 
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Date: 17-11-2021 17:18
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Fantasy wrote:
ouch wrote:
Fantasy wrote:
why are u apologizing if u don't actually feel apologetic?
I feel like u just shouldn't if u aren't really felling sorry cause it will always just come off as shallow and insincere (since it isn't lol)
Cus I wanna go to their house again without it being awkward 
idk if it wasn't a major argument u could just brush it off or apologize in 1-2 sentences (even tho u said its pretty obv when u aren't really feeling sorry ig it's better than not apologizing ta all)
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Date: 17-11-2021 17:21
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Aphrodite wrote:
Don’t apologize if you’re not feeling sorry
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Date: 17-11-2021 17:21
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Barbarella wrote:
Aphrodite wrote:
Don’t apologize if you’re not feeling sorry
This. It's phony, and folks can see right thru that.
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Date: 17-11-2021 17:22
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Barbarella wrote:
what exactly happened?
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Take some time to contemplate it first, and figure if you're saying sorry for the right reasons. Or, take a shot, and say you aren't sorry but you understand that x and x consequences came out of it. However, first and foremost, contemplate the why.

Big question tho: what happened -- 
Date: 17-11-2021 17:25 | Times changed: 1
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Barbarella wrote:
what exactly happened?
Can't say exactly what on vp, but was drunk, did smth without thinking cus my regular friends have nothing against me doing that thing, but apparantly the dude I was at had a problem w it, not so much like he kicked me out or im unwelcome there again, and idk if he would even care or feel its awkward if I come there again, but I feel awkward, at least if he says smth abt it and I don't know what to say without sounding like a douchebag (even tho he already knows im a douchebag lol, but one can at least try to behave properly) 
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Date: 17-11-2021 17:26
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Barbarella wrote:
ouch wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
what exactly happened?
Can't say exactly what on vp, but was drunk, did smth without thinking cus my regular friends have nothing against me doing that thing, but apparantly the dude I was at had a problem w it, not so much like he kicked me out or im unwelcome there again, and idk if he would even care or feel its awkward if I come there again, but I feel awkward, at least if he says smth abt it and I don't know what to say without sounding like a douchebag (even tho he already knows im a douchebag lol, but one can at least try to behave properly) 
Well, no one is obligated to forgive you, or put up with behaviors they're uncomfortable with.
Something along the lines of, "the social expectations here were different than what I'm used to, and I made a mistake without realizing it, I won't do that again over here" seems like a reasonable way to clear the air, but they certainly don't have to accept it, and might not. 
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Date: 17-11-2021 17:30
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Barbarella wrote:
ouch wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
what exactly happened?
Can't say exactly what on vp, but was drunk, did smth without thinking cus my regular friends have nothing against me doing that thing, but apparantly the dude I was at had a problem w it, not so much like he kicked me out or im unwelcome there again, and idk if he would even care or feel its awkward if I come there again, but I feel awkward, at least if he says smth abt it and I don't know what to say without sounding like a douchebag (even tho he already knows im a douchebag lol, but one can at least try to behave properly) 
Well, no one is obligated to forgive you, or put up with behaviors they're uncomfortable with.
Something along the lines of, "the social expectations here were different than what I'm used to, and I made a mistake without realizing it, I won't do that again over here" seems like a reasonable way to clear the air, but they certainly don't have to accept it, and might not. 
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Date: 17-11-2021 17:32
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Aphrodite wrote:
Nesta wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
ouch wrote:
Can't say exactly what on vp, but was drunk, did smth without thinking cus my regular friends have nothing against me doing that thing, but apparantly the dude I was at had a problem w it, not so much like he kicked me out or im unwelcome there again, and idk if he would even care or feel its awkward if I come there again, but I feel awkward, at least if he says smth abt it and I don't know what to say without sounding like a douchebag (even tho he already knows im a douchebag lol, but one can at least try to behave properly) 
Well, no one is obligated to forgive you, or put up with behaviors they're uncomfortable with.
Something along the lines of, "the social expectations here were different than what I'm used to, and I made a mistake without realizing it, I won't do that again over here" seems like a reasonable way to clear the air, but they certainly don't have to accept it, and might not. 
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Date: 17-11-2021 17:33
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ouch wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
ouch wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
what exactly happened?
Can't say exactly what on vp, but was drunk, did smth without thinking cus my regular friends have nothing against me doing that thing, but apparantly the dude I was at had a problem w it, not so much like he kicked me out or im unwelcome there again, and idk if he would even care or feel its awkward if I come there again, but I feel awkward, at least if he says smth abt it and I don't know what to say without sounding like a douchebag (even tho he already knows im a douchebag lol, but one can at least try to behave properly) 
Well, no one is obligated to forgive you, or put up with behaviors they're uncomfortable with.
Something along the lines of, "the social expectations here were different than what I'm used to, and I made a mistake without realizing it, I won't do that again over here" seems like a reasonable way to clear the air, but they certainly don't have to accept it, and might not. 
Thank u, and yes true true, I think he will accept since ha already said its ok for me to come there again, but yes if he mentions it next time im there I will say smth along those lines I think, smart wwords and no lying involved 
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Date: 17-11-2021 17:33
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Bubben wrote:
Just repeat after me: Hello I don't want it to be awkward the next time i come to your house so i'm "apologizing" right now but i don't actually mean it but i am very not sorryily sorry
At least that's what i would say to my friends if i wanted to apologize without being apologetic cuz i never lie UnU
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Date: 17-11-2021 18:08
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Barbarella wrote:
ouch wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
ouch wrote:
Can't say exactly what on vp, but was drunk, did smth without thinking cus my regular friends have nothing against me doing that thing, but apparantly the dude I was at had a problem w it, not so much like he kicked me out or im unwelcome there again, and idk if he would even care or feel its awkward if I come there again, but I feel awkward, at least if he says smth abt it and I don't know what to say without sounding like a douchebag (even tho he already knows im a douchebag lol, but one can at least try to behave properly) 
Well, no one is obligated to forgive you, or put up with behaviors they're uncomfortable with.
Something along the lines of, "the social expectations here were different than what I'm used to, and I made a mistake without realizing it, I won't do that again over here" seems like a reasonable way to clear the air, but they certainly don't have to accept it, and might not. 
Thank u, and yes true true, I think he will accept since ha already said its ok for me to come there again, but yes if he mentions it next time im there I will say smth along those lines I think, smart wwords and no lying involved 
Yeah it's kinda like, acknowledging you did something they didn't like, and confirming you won't do it again - but it's not really an apology, so it's not really a lie?
I'm not like, tryna encourage you to be manipulative, lol, but I think a fake apology is more manipulative in this scenario 
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Date: 17-11-2021 18:12
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ouch wrote:
Bubben wrote:
Just repeat after me: Hello I don't want it to be awkward the next time i come to your house so i'm "apologizing" right now but i don't actually mean it but i am very not sorryily sorry
At least that's what i would say to my friends if i wanted to apologize without being apologetic cuz i never lie UnU
Valid 
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Date: 17-11-2021 18:14
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