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Bloodflowers wrote:
overslept to my tattoo appointment and ended up pretty late. was supposed to meet a friend afterwards, kept her updated about when i was done and where i was (takes some time to get there)
she chose to wait in the mall (she lives 15min walk from there) for 1,5h.
first thing she does is stick her middle finger in my face and i tried to laugh it off bc like
but i could tell she was pissed and i was not in a good mood but i thought whatever my partner is social so they start talking. i of course answer questions about the tattoo etc and i tell her about oversleeping.
we go and train her dog but it doesnt go well so i think alright no point in continuing today so we all end up going back to the bus instead.
she keeps avoiding talking to me but instead talks w my partner.
we say goodbye and me and my partner take a bus home.
i send her a snap of my tattoo which she ignores.
then today i get a super long text about how ungrateful and rude i am and how she's so sick of putting up with me (despite never showing or saying she's had a problem before). after i text her and asks if she wants to get a coffee w me someday. she also thought we just didnt give a shit abt being on time.
I tell her as it is that we hurried and stressed so much to get there and that I had told her my partner did not wake me up bc he thought the appointment was later. I also said i was not in the mood after getting a middle finger shoved in my face and that she also didnt try and talk to me. But she continues being upset that I didn't rlly make an attempt at conversation and I kept saying neither did you and that i wasn't upset that she didn't. She completely ignored giving me the middle finger and keeps being surprised i wasnt in the mood after that and her being weird and cold from the start (as my partner also thought).
She says im taking my problems out on her bc i didnt make conversation ? and says she also must say what upsets her because only im allowed to. which im not. so i tell her i can never tell her she doesn anything wrong with her reacting so big.Â
I apologise for her having to wait and for being silent and she of course doesnt think she herself has done any wrong.
Then we fall into the topic of alcohol and I say she has multiple times tried to urge me to keep drinking and so i dont talk about my problems no more.
She says if i want to share my problems i must be okay with getting advice i dont want and that its dangerous to stop drinking if youre an alcoholic and that she has collegauges that are alcoholics to she knows what shes talking about.
and despite me losing all my brain cells i say well ok but you dont tell an addict they should keep using thats dangerous. and that i have both a nurse and a doctor specific for this problem (she knows this). and that hearing that cant hurt me anymore but for other people u know.
but she doesn't see the problem.
overslept to my tattoo appointment and ended up pretty late. was supposed to meet a friend afterwards, kept her updated about when i was done and where i was (takes some time to get there)
she chose to wait in the mall (she lives 15min walk from there) for 1,5h.
first thing she does is stick her middle finger in my face and i tried to laugh it off bc like
but i could tell she was pissed and i was not in a good mood but i thought whatever my partner is social so they start talking. i of course answer questions about the tattoo etc and i tell her about oversleeping.
we go and train her dog but it doesnt go well so i think alright no point in continuing today so we all end up going back to the bus instead.
she keeps avoiding talking to me but instead talks w my partner.
we say goodbye and me and my partner take a bus home.
i send her a snap of my tattoo which she ignores.
then today i get a super long text about how ungrateful and rude i am and how she's so sick of putting up with me (despite never showing or saying she's had a problem before). after i text her and asks if she wants to get a coffee w me someday. she also thought we just didnt give a shit abt being on time.
I tell her as it is that we hurried and stressed so much to get there and that I had told her my partner did not wake me up bc he thought the appointment was later. I also said i was not in the mood after getting a middle finger shoved in my face and that she also didnt try and talk to me. But she continues being upset that I didn't rlly make an attempt at conversation and I kept saying neither did you and that i wasn't upset that she didn't. She completely ignored giving me the middle finger and keeps being surprised i wasnt in the mood after that and her being weird and cold from the start (as my partner also thought).
She says im taking my problems out on her bc i didnt make conversation ? and says she also must say what upsets her because only im allowed to. which im not. so i tell her i can never tell her she doesn anything wrong with her reacting so big.Â
I apologise for her having to wait and for being silent and she of course doesnt think she herself has done any wrong.
Then we fall into the topic of alcohol and I say she has multiple times tried to urge me to keep drinking and so i dont talk about my problems no more.
She says if i want to share my problems i must be okay with getting advice i dont want and that its dangerous to stop drinking if youre an alcoholic and that she has collegauges that are alcoholics to she knows what shes talking about.
and despite me losing all my brain cells i say well ok but you dont tell an addict they should keep using thats dangerous. and that i have both a nurse and a doctor specific for this problem (she knows this). and that hearing that cant hurt me anymore but for other people u know.
but she doesn't see the problem.
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