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Hungover
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So, I'm currently in my second to last year of my further education, and lately, I've been feeling so burnt out, tired, depressed and etc. Because of school, I've been skipping classes a lot and showing up late, haven't done homework and etc. Because of my mental health. I've been thinking about taking a gap year for the past few months, and today my mother told me that she'd noticed my lack of passion for school, that she knew I was burning out, and that she supported me taking a gap year.

Fucking amazing, I'm crying happy tears because I feel so relieved.

The flipside is, that I feel like somewhat of a fuckup if I take a gap year, (obviously I don't see anyone else as fuckups if they take gap years, purely myself) and I don't really know how to go about it.

I'm doing this for my mental health, I'm doing this to better myself and to do something I'm passionate about, but it still feels so scary.
Solar
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do it!!!! proud of u for recognizing things arent going well & taking a step to fix it
Hungover
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Conqueror wrote:
do it!!!! proud of u for recognizing things arent going well & taking a step to fix it
Thank you!
It's still very scary to me, but I'm working on moving out and starting my life for good, and school just isn't for me right now.
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hungover wrote:
Conqueror wrote:
do it!!!! proud of u for recognizing things arent going well & taking a step to fix it
Thank you!
It's still very scary to me, but I'm working on moving out and starting my life for good, and school just isn't for me right now.
and thats completely okay! life doesn't always go as you planned it & that's valid. i can understand its v scary but i hope you make the choice thats best for you, even if its a scary one
Hungover
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Conqueror wrote:
hungover wrote:
Conqueror wrote:
do it!!!! proud of u for recognizing things arent going well & taking a step to fix it
Thank you!
It's still very scary to me, but I'm working on moving out and starting my life for good, and school just isn't for me right now.
and thats completely okay! life doesn't always go as you planned it & that's valid. i can understand its v scary but i hope you make the choice thats best for you, even if its a scary one
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many people in my gymnasie klasse dropped out, took a gap year (some took several) and came back and finished gymnasiet later. worked out great for all of them, so i say go for it, do what's best for you
Hungover
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Rouya wrote:
many people in my gymnasie klasse dropped out, took a gap year (some took several) and came back and finished gymnasiet later. worked out great for all of them, so i say go for it, do what's best for you
Yeah, yeah, I'm just scared, I guess. :/
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There's nothing wrong with taking gap year. I've been doing it myself too for focusing on mental health, getting help, find passion in life again etc. Id also recommend to consider take fewer classes maybe if you'd like, you don't need to be full-time student.
It's ok to take time off and get back at it later!
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Do it, I would have needed it too, but didn't want to disappoint everyone, even though I'm still killing myself. I have now two jobs to have some money to live and still trying to finish my studies (extra year for it). And all the other shit going in my life.

So be smarter than me and do it, take care of yourself. Find your passion and then try again. 
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hungover wrote:
Rouya wrote:
many people in my gymnasie klasse dropped out, took a gap year (some took several) and came back and finished gymnasiet later. worked out great for all of them, so i say go for it, do what's best for you
Yeah, yeah, I'm just scared, I guess. :/
understandable
it will be okay either way
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