out of place in restaurants - Forum

Cobain
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cobain wrote:
literally why do i feel so out of place in fancy settings LMFAO
just had a full day at work, like conference type shit, at a hotel
i feel like a dumb little kid??? but i guess it's lack of experience. i mean how often am i at a hotel??? same with restaurants n stuff, i don't know how to act i hate it

anywho i was this 🤏🤏🤏 close to punching an old man in the throat bc he was so fucking rude to me when i tried helping him with the coffee machine. like ok u rotting piece of shit i was literally just trying to help

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AcaciaOnyx wrote:
same i really hate fancy places because i feel like i am too poor for this lol. also growing up i never had a chance to go to fancy hotels and restaurants and i dont know how to act. i always feel like im glowing and everyone looks at me and sees that im just not from their "elite" circles if that makes sense

SweetLapis
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SweetLapis wrote:
Do you go out often?
Personally I don't, so I feel weird a lot of times when I do. Sometimes I even get anxiety. Honestly I try to just be myself, and if someone's got a problem they can go screw themselves.

Cobain
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cobain wrote:

AcaciaOnyx wrote:
same i really hate fancy places because i feel like i am too poor for this lol. also growing up i never had a chance to go to fancy hotels and restaurants and i dont know how to act. i always feel like im glowing and everyone looks at me and sees that im just not from their "elite" circles if that makes sense

EXACTLY !!!!!
not used to that kind of life lol. i've never been to places w my parents due to lack of money. the few times i've been somewhere it's been with my grandparents, but that wasn't often at all.
i generally fucking hate the ppl you meet at hotels/restaurants, feel like they all have a superiority complex ew

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Melody wrote:
if it's a rly fine place then yea i won't even enter bc i feel like "rabble"

Cobain
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cobain wrote:

SweetLapis wrote:
Do you go out often?
Personally I don't, so I feel weird a lot of times when I do. Sometimes I even get anxiety. Honestly I try to just be myself, and if someone's got a problem they can go screw themselves.

not really no. but part of it is this reason, i dislike being odd and looked at. it's a vicious cycle i guess
but i mean i can live without going to fancy places. just have to suck it up when i HAVE to go somewhere lol

SweetLapis
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SweetLapis wrote:

cobain wrote:

SweetLapis wrote:
Do you go out often?
Personally I don't, so I feel weird a lot of times when I do. Sometimes I even get anxiety. Honestly I try to just be myself, and if someone's got a problem they can go screw themselves.

not really no. but part of it is this reason, i dislike being odd and looked at. it's a vicious cycle i guess
but i mean i can live without going to fancy places. just have to suck it up when i HAVE to go somewhere lol

Understandable. Feel the same way. Too bad we can't choose when to be seen but still go on about our lives.

Cobain
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cobain wrote:
fine example is the old man at the coffee machine
a WOMAN helping ME with a MACHINE??? a YOUNG person???? thinking THEY know something better than I do????????? unacceptable

Cobain
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cobain wrote:
OH OH OH fancy food is another thing !!!!! i'm not used to it and i think it tastes bad most of the time. i forced myself to eat blue cheese today. bc i couldn't be rude and not eat what was served hahgdskehg i gag just thinking about it. i'm bad w cheese, i'm like a kid, i just like the veeeery "tame" kinds. moldy cheese is out of the question but : )))))) it was served to me so wtf was i supposed to do : ))))))))