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so my sister and her bf has had a rough time, well basically it ended up with her almost committing, then going to a mental hospital for a few days. it mainly was her bf who was psyching her but while she was there he did reach out for help and got the meds he needed, they still do fight sometimes but it's usually fine now and she's back to her normal self, and he pretty much are too.
however, after this thing my family decided to give him another chance since he did try his best to change. my mom was fine with having him over for christmas and all.
but a few days ago my sister was pretty upset because he went to his family for a few hours and didn't respond back (however he did have a valid excuse and had family issues so it's fine) and when that happened my sister cried at my moms place. my mom kept making it worse and my sister left in tears. now my mom told her he's no longer welcome on christmas and told her shit that you shouldn't tell someone that's recently been unstable.
worth noting that her bf has been like family to us, he hasn't got a real family and has nowhere to spend christmas since they're muslims and he loves christmas and all. so now my sister doesn't want to come unless he's invited. I haven't spoken to my mom since the incident because I did tell her she did wrong and my mom whom i suspect might be narcissistic is mad abt that.
while I do want to spend christmas with my sister, i don't want to ruin christmas for my baby sister who's still a kid and that would be seriously hurt if I didn't show up. it feels so wrong that me and my bf is showing up while my sister wont
so my sister and her bf has had a rough time, well basically it ended up with her almost committing, then going to a mental hospital for a few days. it mainly was her bf who was psyching her but while she was there he did reach out for help and got the meds he needed, they still do fight sometimes but it's usually fine now and she's back to her normal self, and he pretty much are too.
however, after this thing my family decided to give him another chance since he did try his best to change. my mom was fine with having him over for christmas and all.
but a few days ago my sister was pretty upset because he went to his family for a few hours and didn't respond back (however he did have a valid excuse and had family issues so it's fine) and when that happened my sister cried at my moms place. my mom kept making it worse and my sister left in tears. now my mom told her he's no longer welcome on christmas and told her shit that you shouldn't tell someone that's recently been unstable.
worth noting that her bf has been like family to us, he hasn't got a real family and has nowhere to spend christmas since they're muslims and he loves christmas and all. so now my sister doesn't want to come unless he's invited. I haven't spoken to my mom since the incident because I did tell her she did wrong and my mom whom i suspect might be narcissistic is mad abt that.
while I do want to spend christmas with my sister, i don't want to ruin christmas for my baby sister who's still a kid and that would be seriously hurt if I didn't show up. it feels so wrong that me and my bf is showing up while my sister wont
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