Melody wrote: prolly not gonna get one bc laws get in the way. i'm biologically unable to have kids so i'd have to adopt i'm gonna be 25 this year and i know ppl my age who already have kids and i don't get how they do it. i can barely take care of myself
but the age isn't really important here. i want to be financially and emotionally secure. have my own apartment, and potentially a partner who is willing. only then i'll consider kids. my preference is for adopting though.