emogirrrl123 wrote:
my mom
i told her not to bring my sister with her (she was supposed to help me with moving bc i don't have a car) bc of the way she's treating me but she did. my sister who never puts any effort to keep in touch and left my last message/question on read. we meet her at the shopping center. her first words are whining about how she so wants this expensive jacket and this and that. my mom says she doesn't have any money on her bank account and shows it to her. she whines how omg she doesn't know anything about math bc she barely finished school with passing grades haha. we continue to follow her around the store until she's done. if i stop to look at something, they don't wait for me. i feel like a service dog during this part. my sister doesn't say a word to me, she didn't even say hi.
outside of the store, i pull my mom from my sister and ask why is she letting her behave in such ways. i tell her how relationships need effort from both sides blahblah. she tells me not to ruin the mood. we continue my sister's shopping spree and i try to act as nice as i'm able to though my mom was supposed to come help me with transporting the sofa to my place (bc she said she wanted to). i never agreed to this nor to my sister coming.
at some point i ask my sister what her problem is, "excuse me?", i tell her everything i've said above and it somehow ends with me being ungrateful for the plates i got from my mom (i'll give you every euro back if it's truly about that, though i thought i already offered to pay for them at the store?) while it's totally reasonable that she buys her stuff all the time, pays her rent in the capital city, wants to hire a cleaner for her etc. my mom tells me to leave if i'm going to be rude to others. i leave
my mom
i told her not to bring my sister with her (she was supposed to help me with moving bc i don't have a car) bc of the way she's treating me but she did. my sister who never puts any effort to keep in touch and left my last message/question on read. we meet her at the shopping center. her first words are whining about how she so wants this expensive jacket and this and that. my mom says she doesn't have any money on her bank account and shows it to her. she whines how omg she doesn't know anything about math bc she barely finished school with passing grades haha. we continue to follow her around the store until she's done. if i stop to look at something, they don't wait for me. i feel like a service dog during this part. my sister doesn't say a word to me, she didn't even say hi.
outside of the store, i pull my mom from my sister and ask why is she letting her behave in such ways. i tell her how relationships need effort from both sides blahblah. she tells me not to ruin the mood. we continue my sister's shopping spree and i try to act as nice as i'm able to though my mom was supposed to come help me with transporting the sofa to my place (bc she said she wanted to). i never agreed to this nor to my sister coming.
at some point i ask my sister what her problem is, "excuse me?", i tell her everything i've said above and it somehow ends with me being ungrateful for the plates i got from my mom (i'll give you every euro back if it's truly about that, though i thought i already offered to pay for them at the store?) while it's totally reasonable that she buys her stuff all the time, pays her rent in the capital city, wants to hire a cleaner for her etc. my mom tells me to leave if i'm going to be rude to others. i leave