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Salem wrote:
please like sfkldhdsk I don't know what to do
this is gonna b long I'll be surprised if any of u read it or respond but lmao I have reached a point where I actually really need to sort this shit out n advice would be *chefs kiss*

my boss asked me if I want to go for team leader today and every bone in my body says no to that because the pay rise sure as shit does not match the added responsibilities, let alone the fact that it's not an area of work that I want to be in in any long(.....er) term capacity
occasionally I'll force myself to look up jobs and apprenticeships and see what's available in the hope that I'll find something that appeals to me but not knowing what I wanna do in terms of education or profession or life in general is a running theme for me so no success there. the most appealing thing would be an apprenticeship in something bc the thought of on the job training and learning and potential for growth appeals so much but the pay rate is generally pretty painful and I'm not at a point in my life where I can afford to take the hit. only found one so far that felt """right""" that I applied to and djkdjkg yea idk
like do I just. go for the team leader position and throw myself into it and have something better to put on my cv? like a shit load of new stuff to learn and fluff it with so mby that'll help? or stick it out as team member and idk somehow find something else bc really I'm at the point where I'm like yes carEER let's gO but feelin kinda hopeless atm. don't wanna fall into the trap of being comfortable with my current job and turning around in ten years like did I not say this is exactly what I didn't want

existential thoughts at 1am wbu
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Nuola wrote:
i'm not going to be very helpful here. i'm in a similar spot where i'm not sure what decisions to make about my future, so you're not alone. you have been heard, and hopefully this will bump so people who will be more helpful will stop by.
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bee wrote:
not that i read it all (sorry) but here is my poor advice: follow ur heart
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Salem wrote:
Nuola wrote:
i'm not going to be very helpful here. i'm in a similar spot where i'm not sure what decisions to make about my future, so you're not alone. you have been heard, and hopefully this will bump so people who will be more helpful will stop by.
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Salem wrote:
bee wrote:
not that i read it all (sorry) but here is my poor advice: follow ur heart
hahah idc lov the response
except this heart doesn't know wtf it wants hence the problemĀ 
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
lol its a tricky one ! Cuz like on somedays im like 'nah wish i never became a manager this is LONG n i dont want responsibility n added stress especially cos im not rly earning much more' like the other day i was literally jokingly crying to my boss like 'plssss demote me' but . i dunno . i have learnt a lot n it does look good on my cv. i guess ill find out if it was worth it when i try to look for another job u know ? so this isnt rly very good advice LOOL sorry
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Salem wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
lol its a tricky one ! Cuz like on somedays im like 'nah wish i never became a manager this is LONG n i dont want responsibility n added stress especially cos im not rly earning much more' like the other day i was literally jokingly crying to my boss like 'plssss demote me' but . i dunno . i have learnt a lot n it does look good on my cv. i guess ill find out if it was worth it when i try to look for another job u know ? so this isnt rly very good advice LOOL sorry
no, thanku for replying !!! and yea that's my worry lol like ugh don't want the position but looking forward I'm like well ? would look good for me having had it, way more likely to be hired for somethin so mby I should but stressss n skjfsjkf yes I just go back to hiding from the issue lmao
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Salem wrote:
Cherry wrote:
Salem wrote:

my boss asked me if I want to go for team leader today and every bone in my body says no to thatĀ 
I'm a firm believer in following your gut and after reading the entire thing, it sounds like you shouldn't go for team leader. I'm very certain you will eventually find something that catches your eye, if you decide to stay as a team member. Even if you maybe don't wait ten years, you still have time to find something else
true like the visceral reaction I've had every time someone's asked if I wanna become team leader should tell me all I need to know but still there's that lil somethin that's like no do this do this
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Versailles wrote:
Oh this one is hard. I mean you're already working there and you gonna learn a lot that can benefit you later (good on CV and better job opportunities later?). You can a) follow your gut and say no and keep looking for a job elsewhere or take course in anything you're interested in or b) If you think you can go for it even tho it's half a year or a year max, it's gonna be good learning experience and easier to get tf out of there to something better - but you need to be somewhat motivated for it and don't burn out.
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Salem wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Oh this one is hard. I mean you're already working there and you gonna learn a lot that can benefit you later (good on CV and better job opportunities later?). You can a) follow your gut and say no and keep looking for a job elsewhere or take course in anything you're interested in or b) If you think you can go for it even tho it's half a year or a year max, it's gonna be good learning experience and easier to get tf out of there to something better - but you need to be somewhat motivated for it and don't burn out.
yes aaa that's my concern that it'll idk overwhelm me or something?? tbh I think I'm gonna go for it purely for the experience and to be able to get more stuff on to my cv and just push through if I'm finding it tough !! can't see anything else really benefitting me seeing as I haven't got any real interest in any area of study atm or have real job ~options~ I wanna explore
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