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like theres this guy i just really wanna hang out with, as friends. but idk how to make it happen. i know him and his roomies often throw parties, and he said he would invite me to some but idk if thats gonna happen if i do nothing. can i just like ask him if anything happens in the weekend? what if he says yes but not yes you should come, what should i say? what if he says no, can i be like ok let me know if anything happens another time! would that be weird or too pushy? 
honestly i have never taken initiative for anything before but suddenly my meds lets me do this without feeling like im gonna die, which is kinda great, but idk where the line goes, when is it too much and i should leave them alone. social people share ur skills and knowledge 
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pls vp this is important 
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I don't think so, if you don't want to sound to pushy tho, you can always say "if you got place for an extra, i would love to come"
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Angelica wrote:
I don't think so, if you don't want to sound to pushy tho, you can always say "if you got place for an extra, i would love to come"
thats a good way to phrase it ty!!
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bee wrote:
Angelica wrote:
I don't think so, if you don't want to sound to pushy tho, you can always say "if you got place for an extra, i would love to come"
thats a good way to phrase it ty!!
Np, hope it works! 😋
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i used to literally just say to people 'yo where the party at on friday i need plans' and usually there was an answer letting me know where the party at.

sometimes people tell u that youre asking the wrong person tho like no sorry no parties here idk so then i'd be like 'bet- you wanna do a movie or somethin you and me and anyone else who don't know where the party is at' and then things wouldcome together for me and id have a whole weekend planned out
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Claire wrote:
i used to literally just say to people 'yo where the party at on friday i need plans' and usually there was an answer letting me know where the party at.

sometimes people tell u that youre asking the wrong person tho like no sorry no parties here idk so then i'd be like 'bet- you wanna do a movie or somethin you and me and anyone else who don't know where the party is at' and then things wouldcome together for me and id have a whole weekend planned out
that sounds amazing actually, i feel inspired
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bee wrote:
Claire wrote:
i used to literally just say to people 'yo where the party at on friday i need plans' and usually there was an answer letting me know where the party at.

sometimes people tell u that youre asking the wrong person tho like no sorry no parties here idk so then i'd be like 'bet- you wanna do a movie or somethin you and me and anyone else who don't know where the party is at' and then things wouldcome together for me and id have a whole weekend planned out
that sounds amazing actually, i feel inspired
and like you can also like play it off real casual if it turns out the person like straight up does not wanna hang out - you can be like oh damn too bad i thought for sure u were the person who knew wehre the party was at' instead of like .... being awkward after you clearly got rejected you knkow? there's at least one like response built in there. lmfao. you like can let the person know that despite rejection you think that person is cool and then theyll maybe think of u next time there IS a party.
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Claire wrote:
bee wrote:
Claire wrote:
i used to literally just say to people 'yo where the party at on friday i need plans' and usually there was an answer letting me know where the party at.

sometimes people tell u that youre asking the wrong person tho like no sorry no parties here idk so then i'd be like 'bet- you wanna do a movie or somethin you and me and anyone else who don't know where the party is at' and then things wouldcome together for me and id have a whole weekend planned out
that sounds amazing actually, i feel inspired
and like you can also like play it off real casual if it turns out the person like straight up does not wanna hang out - you can be like oh damn too bad i thought for sure u were the person who knew wehre the party was at' instead of like .... being awkward after you clearly got rejected you knkow? there's at least one like response built in there. lmfao. you like can let the person know that despite rejection you think that person is cool and then theyll maybe think of u next time there IS a party.
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Danielle wrote:
Claire wrote:
bee wrote:
that sounds amazing actually, i feel inspired
and like you can also like play it off real casual if it turns out the person like straight up does not wanna hang out - you can be like oh damn too bad i thought for sure u were the person who knew wehre the party was at' instead of like .... being awkward after you clearly got rejected you knkow? there's at least one like response built in there. lmfao. you like can let the person know that despite rejection you think that person is cool and then theyll maybe think of u next time there IS a party.
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me too!!
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oh how i wish i knew 
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