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am I in the wrong here?
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Peachy wrote:
this friend who is "depressed" (has no diagnose, even though went in for one but claims to have symptoms) just sent me a message today asking if i'm alright since i said sum around the lines "oh well :/" 

I told him i'm ok and nothing bad happened because i'm with someone

And ever since that message he had an attitude, answered like "k" "ye" etc. 
i asked what's with the attitude boi 

and he got mad at me, said i'm a drama queen and i always start unnecessary drama (? lmao) he proceeded to block me after gaslighting me into thinking i was causing a scene when i literally just asked why he answered with an attitude for no reason. (was like, "wtf text me when you've calmed down" "you're crazy" etc.) 





- to add to the story the same guy got pissed at me for being interested in someone else, since he has had a crush for 4 years and i never gave him a chance.
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Date: 05-02-2022 22:41
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Peachy wrote:
and he blocked me xd
called me insane said i have issues etc etc.
said i always cause drama even tho i let go the subject like 6 hours ago, since it wasn't a big deal to me i just wanted to know what the problem was. 
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Date: 05-02-2022 22:42
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Sylvan wrote:
Block him, for your own good
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Date: 05-02-2022 22:44
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Sylvan wrote:
Block him, for your own good
Date: 05-02-2022 22:44
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Peachy wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Block him, for your own good
he already did that 


i just want to understand sum, because i told the friend i'm going to the psychiatrist since they think i might be bipolar and i feel like i'm being gaslighted since i told him that it was because of constantly having fights with ppl. (like my mom)

but rn i don't think it's my fault? i wanna know what ppl think
like is it rude ? i've made it clear i ain't interested in him and nothing would EVER happen so idk why he's pissed lol he saw it coming. 

or the fact that i told him he has an attitude
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Date: 05-02-2022 22:53
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Sylvan wrote:
Peachy wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Block him, for your own good
he already did that 


i just want to understand sum, because i told the friend i'm going to the psychiatrist since they think i might be bipolar and i feel like i'm being gaslighted since i told him that it was because of constantly having fights with ppl. (like my mom)

but rn i don't think it's my fault? i wanna know what ppl think
like is it rude ? i've made it clear i ain't interested in him and nothing would EVER happen so idk why he's pissed lol he saw it coming. 

or the fact that i told him he has an attitude
He acts like a baby u treat him like a baby 
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Date: 05-02-2022 22:55
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Peachy wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Peachy wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Block him, for your own good
he already did that 


i just want to understand sum, because i told the friend i'm going to the psychiatrist since they think i might be bipolar and i feel like i'm being gaslighted since i told him that it was because of constantly having fights with ppl. (like my mom)

but rn i don't think it's my fault? i wanna know what ppl think
like is it rude ? i've made it clear i ain't interested in him and nothing would EVER happen so idk why he's pissed lol he saw it coming. 

or the fact that i told him he has an attitude
He acts like a baby u treat him like a baby 
u have a point.
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Date: 05-02-2022 22:56
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omamori wrote:
you shouldnt fakeclaim someone regardless of how they r acting 

however he sounds like an exhausting person to be around and definitely not good for ur mental health at all
i dont think ur in the wrong , i had a ""friend"" who was friends with me pretty much solely bc he liked me romantically and anytime i talked abt anyone i was interested in he'd flip his lid and give me the silent treatment for a day

people like that r gross and arent gonna learn from their behavior unless you make them
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Date: 05-02-2022 23:10
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Peachy wrote:
omamori wrote:
you shouldnt fakeclaim someone regardless of how they r acting 

however he sounds like an exhausting person to be around and definitely not good for ur mental health at all
i dont think ur in the wrong , i had a ""friend"" who was friends with me pretty much solely bc he liked me romantically and anytime i talked abt anyone i was interested in he'd flip his lid and give me the silent treatment for a day

people like that r gross and arent gonna learn from their behavior unless you make them
fake claim? lol huh??
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Peachy wrote:
lol who is fakeclaiming anyone XD
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Date: 05-02-2022 23:55
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omamori wrote:
Peachy wrote:
omamori wrote:
you shouldnt fakeclaim someone regardless of how they r acting 

however he sounds like an exhausting person to be around and definitely not good for ur mental health at all
i dont think ur in the wrong , i had a ""friend"" who was friends with me pretty much solely bc he liked me romantically and anytime i talked abt anyone i was interested in he'd flip his lid and give me the silent treatment for a day

people like that r gross and arent gonna learn from their behavior unless you make them
fake claim? lol huh??
sorry, i was offline. busy house hunting

in the beginning of your post you say that he’s “depressed” in quotes, and you note that he hasn’t been formally diagnosed but “claims” he has the symptoms 

which reads to me as you not believing he has depression because he’s not formally diagnosed or not believing it for some other reason, etc etc, or implying he’s faking it in some way


youre free to correct me if im wrong, english isn’t my first language and im not great at deciphering tone through text 
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Date: 06-02-2022 01:53
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misjel wrote:
can’t tell since i only have one side of this story
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Date: 06-02-2022 02:03
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Potion wrote:
why are u even friends. from this it doesnt seem like any of you really care for or like each other
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Date: 06-02-2022 02:06
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Peachy wrote:
omamori wrote:
Peachy wrote:
omamori wrote:
you shouldnt fakeclaim someone regardless of how they r acting 

however he sounds like an exhausting person to be around and definitely not good for ur mental health at all
i dont think ur in the wrong , i had a ""friend"" who was friends with me pretty much solely bc he liked me romantically and anytime i talked abt anyone i was interested in he'd flip his lid and give me the silent treatment for a day

people like that r gross and arent gonna learn from their behavior unless you make them
fake claim? lol huh??
sorry, i was offline. busy house hunting

in the beginning of your post you say that he’s “depressed” in quotes, and you note that he hasn’t been formally diagnosed but “claims” he has the symptoms 

which reads to me as you not believing he has depression because he’s not formally diagnosed or not believing it for some other reason, etc etc, or implying he’s faking it in some way


youre free to correct me if im wrong, english isn’t my first language and im not great at deciphering tone through text 
I'm having a hard time expressing myself lol.
but the reason i said it in quotes, is the fact that he did go to a psychologist / dr. but they said it doesn't "fill the requirements / symptoms" and the "claims" was just because idk how else say it xd except "he says" but idk

regardless, i'm depressed myself as well, and i still think it doesn't give me, nor him the right to put it on others, even though i'm aware i have done that in the past, (not on purpose). 
Him blaming me for it and saying i cause drama because i like someone else doesn't sit right with me. (which is the only thing that has "caused drama" among us, and that's all i can think of that could've triggered him in this situation as well) 
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Date: 06-02-2022 02:23
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Peachy wrote:
Misjel wrote:
can’t tell since i only have one side of this story
understandable i guess.
though he also believed my assaulter that i "made up the story" so imma throw the second chance down the trash now
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Date: 06-02-2022 02:24
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Peachy wrote:
Potion wrote:
why are u even friends. from this it doesnt seem like any of you really care for or like each other
It isn't about caring, it's about being treated disrespectfully and constantly manipulated and being yelled at for no reason. I always care for people, I just have my limits.

We are no longer friends tho, as I said, both blocked.
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Date: 06-02-2022 02:25
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