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Clegane wrote:
why is it a thing in society that people have to down talk themself all the time
why is it called narcissist if you're openly positive about yourself

Once when I was at my grandma's place I walked past a mirror and said "oh, I look good today" and she got really mad and tried to say some shit about being humble 

It annoys me so bad 

Idk some people need to understand the impact constantly putting yourself down verbally actually has on your brain

I mean I used to be that way too but 
honestly we should try to push ourselves more
n heck even encourage our friends to be more like say "thank you, I'm also happy about how my hair looks today" instead of "haha thank you but it's ugly (-: "

Like come on
I'm sick and tired of people not seeing their worth 
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Date: 13-02-2022 14:24 | Times changed: 1
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disposable wrote:
agreed. i try to be more nice to myself and accept compliments! but complimenting myself  - not so much
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Date: 13-02-2022 14:27
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kagura wrote:
same gurl same
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Date: 13-02-2022 14:28
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Ye
Date: 13-02-2022 14:32
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you shouldn't talk down to yourself but i don't think you should openly compliment yourself either

it's good to have some extra money saved in your bank but you don't wanna go around making sure others are aware that you've got money, right

but i agree that there's nothing wrong with accepting compliments when they are given
Date: 13-02-2022 14:32
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you shouldn't talk down to yourself but i don't think you should openly compliment yourself either

it's good to have some extra money saved in your bank but you don't wanna go around making sure others are aware that you've got money, right

but i agree that there's nothing wrong with accepting compliments when they are given
No, those doesn't really measure up to each other. Voicing self confidence/approval and hiding due to the potential of getting robbed/used for money is not the same. One is an action from yourself for yourself, the other is done to you. Telling urself out loud that you like yourself is not bad because it may upset/trigger other ppl into jumping into shity reactions that build on the fact that you can't ever think you're good enough, a mindset constantly exposed to us in our everyday life. It's okay to feel and express that you think you're good enough. It's seriously weird how radical it is for someone and how fucking depressing it is to think that living w a low self-image is the accepted thing to do bc else you're thinking too highly of yourself. And esp. Don't make a noise right. Stay quiet so it doesn't bother anyone else, don't show that you choose to exist differently. No one is served well by ppl living small like that. If it bothers other ppl that someone says they like how they look, it more likely got nothing to do with the person it is said to, and more about how the person who says it feels about themselves/have internalized. Ppl get to validate themselves. Compilments are nice but you can't live on outside validation. It's making very ppl pleasing ppl.  
Date: 13-02-2022 14:54
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uhyre wrote:
shutdown wrote:
you shouldn't talk down to yourself but i don't think you should openly compliment yourself either

it's good to have some extra money saved in your bank but you don't wanna go around making sure others are aware that you've got money, right

but i agree that there's nothing wrong with accepting compliments when they are given
id love an explanation for how those two points are related in any way
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Date: 13-02-2022 14:54
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It really is annoying, that complimenting yourself is somehow bad. Ok I understand those obnoxious people who are like "I'm so freaking hot, I'm perfect" etc are annoying and should just shut the heck up (and I now mean those constantly telling how perfect they are and everyone wants them and no one is as good as they are kind of people).
But if you like your outfit or how you did your hair or other things like this, obviously you should be able to say it out loud. 
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Date: 13-02-2022 15:02
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ouch wrote:
I only put myself down when I am realistic  or when I make food for others so their expectations are not too high 
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Date: 13-02-2022 15:04
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
uhyre wrote:
shutdown wrote:
you shouldn't talk down to yourself but i don't think you should openly compliment yourself either

it's good to have some extra money saved in your bank but you don't wanna go around making sure others are aware that you've got money, right

but i agree that there's nothing wrong with accepting compliments when they are given
id love an explanation for how those two points are related in any way
if u speak too much about how u feel attractive, people will discover that u hav some kind of elixir of youth + beauty and steal it from u .. duh
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i agree. especially when i compliment someone and they basically refuse to accept it.

''woah, i really like your outfit!''
''ohh nooo, it's not that good hahaha, but thanks!'' 

LIKE NO. YOUR OUTFIT IS LOVELY. PERIOD. SSTFU AND TAKE MY COMPLIMENT. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. SHUIT UP AND ACCEPT IT
Date: 13-02-2022 15:15
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Clegane wrote:
Arise wrote:
i agree. especially when i compliment someone and they basically refuse to accept it.

''woah, i really like your outfit!''
''ohh nooo, it's not that good hahaha, but thanks!'' 

LIKE NO. YOUR OUTFIT IS LOVELY. PERIOD. SSTFU AND TAKE MY COMPLIMENT. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. SHUIT UP AND ACCEPT IT


Right 😭😭
Like why do that people 
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Date: 13-02-2022 15:45
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kalypso wrote:
idk who told u that is what a  narcissist is but they clearly need to pick up a book and actually try read something and work a little with their two brain cells 
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Date: 13-02-2022 16:00
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Hufsa wrote:
because if everyone knew their worth and were confident in themselves, we would all be much harder to manipulate. 
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Date: 13-02-2022 16:02
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Sol wrote:
biggg agree
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Date: 13-02-2022 16:15
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