kagura wrote:
once i met this lovely dude on tinder once. when we matched and started chatting he seemed normal and nice, so i wanted to meet him. well we met
he acted like we are already in a relationship??? he started like talking about all the plans "we" have and i was there like what...this is weird. but then he was like "if i come to your place tonight are you sure your ex doesn't come there in the morning to beat me up???". i was like ... uhh yes he is, better if you don't come, ok byEÂ
i didn't block him right away. so naturally he asked me when we will meet again. i kindly told him that i'm not interested to seeing him again, but good luck in the future!Â
and he was like "okay i understand maybe i was little too much, sorry for that. but we can just go back to the friendzone if that's better for you" (back to friendzone from where?????)Â
and i was again kindly like "i'm sorry but i also have no interest of being your friend. i don't want to be mean to you, but i recommend you not to be on tinder if you can't handle rejection at all."Â
then he was like "okay then.. i guess. i'm just going to hurt myself or something. not your problem of course. but when you get lonely i hope you just think what we could have been...."Â
then i block himÂ
i don't know if really an incel but pretty sure he's having good future as an incelÂ