MasileinDE wrote:
if you find an answer, please tell me, I have about 4 people I have to send that to...
honestly, I just tried once telling them that I didn't want to interact too much because I knew me being down was something they didn't enjoy a lot and that I was just in such a bad space, that I couldn't keep appearances up and they ended up being hurt over it nonetheless despite being insufferable themselves whenever I'm just not in a good mood and then lash out because they can't stand the perpetual negativity. so I decided to close them off my life slowly, but still ... like I feel I wouldn't even do the ghosting because depressed thing to people who would be "ok, fine, get back to me whenever, take care", because those friends that are like that, I always tell them