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My gran asked me for $500 -_-
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Anachronism wrote:
Seriously wtf 

I guess her social security froze, she needs phone and gas money and I guess rent? 

She knows I dont make shit at my retail job and I rent a flat, wtf 

Also she rents a room out of her sisters wtf, why not see if she will waive it 

Tho I kinda feel guilty cuz my car broke down and she had been giving me rides cuz i cant afford another car ot to fix it atm (but tax return is coming) 

Also I just dont trust she will pay me back 

But I guess her phone will be shut down tomorrow and she has no gas 

Seriously you're 64 and asking for money constantly from your family who you know dont have much either

Sick of this constant pressure and stress
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Date: 28-02-2022 18:20 | Times changed: 1
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She also hit me up like not that long ago to pay her storage unit, but I dont mind cuz I have stuff in storage so it feels fair 

She pulls this shit constantly and I wonder if I'm a bad person if I cut her off she stresses me out a lot 
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Date: 28-02-2022 18:25
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Ugh I need an opinion am I heartless if I refuse to lend her money 
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Date: 28-02-2022 19:43
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I mean...if you don't have the money either, I don't think you need to? But if you have some extra to pay for example one of the bills needed, I'm sure that would be a big help already. 

But also very annoying if she doesn't pay you back at all. I mean my parents have borrowed me some money to help me pay the bills, but I'll pay them back after studies.
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Date: 28-02-2022 20:00
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Claire wrote:
i might be remembering wrong but didnt she literally rob you not even that long ago
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Date: 28-02-2022 20:08
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Anachronism wrote:
Random wrote:
I mean...if you don't have the money either, I don't think you need to? But if you have some extra to pay for example one of the bills needed, I'm sure that would be a big help already. 

But also very annoying if she doesn't pay you back at all. I mean my parents have borrowed me some money to help me pay the bills, but I'll pay them back after studies.
Shes been begging me for money since I was 18, it's been years 

Sometimes she pays me back but it's all the time 
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Date: 28-02-2022 20:11 | Times changed: 1
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Anachronism wrote:
Random wrote:
I mean...if you don't have the money either, I don't think you need to? But if you have some extra to pay for example one of the bills needed, I'm sure that would be a big help already. 

But also very annoying if she doesn't pay you back at all. I mean my parents have borrowed me some money to help me pay the bills, but I'll pay them back after studies.
Shes been begging me for money since I was 18, it's been years 

Sometimes she pays me back but it's all the time 
Ooooh if it's like that...I wouldn't pay then. 
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Date: 28-02-2022 20:17
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Claire wrote:
i might be remembering wrong but didnt she literally rob you not even that long ago
She robbed my mom of all her savings (and shes broke it wasnt even 3k) after a bad drug trip that rendered her in a manic psychotic state for 3 or 4 months a year ago 

I reported her to adult protective services and she paid her back, claimed she "misplaced" it 

I use her for transportation atm but I'm considering cutting her off and maybe going back to therapy cuz i cant with this shit it's so stressful 
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Date: 28-02-2022 20:21
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Claire wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Claire wrote:
i might be remembering wrong but didnt she literally rob you not even that long ago
She robbed my mom of all her savings (and shes broke it wasnt even 3k) after a bad drug trip that rendered her in a manic psychotic state for 3 or 4 months a year ago 

I reported her to adult protective services and she paid her back, claimed she "misplaced" it 

I use her for transportation atm but I'm considering cutting her off and maybe going back to therapy cuz i cant with this shit it's so stressful 
oh right right right- thats what it was it was literally even worse than what i thought lol.

i wouldnt involve in any money with your gran. like literally never give her money.  and you should not feel bad about it. this is a person who cannot be trusted for money or concerning money. 
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Date: 28-02-2022 20:26
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Cherry wrote:
Kinda off topic, but your gran is really young o:
Yep, my mom was barely 17 when I was born, my gran was only 19 when she had my mom 

I'm almost 28 and I'm happily childfree, I might be open to a kid in a few years but I was raised by very young ppland the generational abuse, poverty and codependency runs so deep I'm terrified I'd repeat that to my own children ): 
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Date: 28-02-2022 20:32
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Anachronism wrote:
Claire wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Claire wrote:
i might be remembering wrong but didnt she literally rob you not even that long ago
She robbed my mom of all her savings (and shes broke it wasnt even 3k) after a bad drug trip that rendered her in a manic psychotic state for 3 or 4 months a year ago 

I reported her to adult protective services and she paid her back, claimed she "misplaced" it 

I use her for transportation atm but I'm considering cutting her off and maybe going back to therapy cuz i cant with this shit it's so stressful 
oh right right right- thats what it was it was literally even worse than what i thought lol.

i wouldnt involve in any money with your gran. like literally never give her money.  and you should not feel bad about it. this is a person who cannot be trusted for money or concerning money. 
Idk I have a weird feeling of owing her.... like she was the reason I didnt go to foster care as a kid, shes given me rent money in the past (that was back when I was an alcoholic mess who couldn't hold a job lol), she has been poor all her life, idk why I feel guilty 

So much codependency, I'm taking a test in a few weeks tho so I can get licensing to get a higher paying job so I can go back to therapy lmfao 
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Date: 28-02-2022 20:50
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Anachronism wrote:
Cherry wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Cherry wrote:
Kinda off topic, but your gran is really young o:
Yep, my mom was barely 17 when I was born, my gran was only 19 when she had my mom 

I'm almost 28 and I'm happily childfree, I might be open to a kid in a few years but I was raised by very young ppland the generational abuse, poverty and codependency runs so deep I'm terrified I'd repeat that to my own children ): 
Ohh that is interesting!

I can barely imagine how your childhood must've been D: I hope things work out! ♥ Sending much love
My mom is doing really well, I'm very proud

I'm really considering looking into ways to sharing and advocating my story because I want to be empowered and not a victim and help others but I'm still working on self improvement but I think 2022 is my year 
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Date: 28-02-2022 20:55
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pups wrote:
I'm so sorry you're going through all of this, I think you should always put yourself first..i¨m sure there is another way she can get hold of the money she needs. and maybe don't accept more help from her if it makes you feel guilty but I don't think you should feel guilty since you don't even have extra money to give her. you need it yourself. I hope It works out
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Date: 28-02-2022 22:20
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pups wrote:
I'm so sorry you're going through all of this, I think you should always put yourself first..i¨m sure there is another way she can get hold of the money she needs. and maybe don't accept more help from her if it makes you feel guilty but I don't think you should feel guilty since you don't even have extra money to give her. you need it yourself. I hope It works out
I mean I could I guess but I'm owed $350 by someone and have some minor debts and I need to fix my car and I have little in savings 

It's an ongoing thing like I'm sorry she has no gas and her phone is shut off but it really feels like she refuses to be responsible and just wants a bail out, like shes been puking shit like this 4 decades 
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Date: 01-03-2022 00:46
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WOAH THO GUYS WTF 

My mom messaged her sister asking if she would stage an intervention for some kind of mental health help and suspicions of a gambling addiction and she said yes 

Woah what
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Date: 01-03-2022 00:48
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emogirrrl123 wrote:
sounds like my mom. i didn't even realize how bad it was before i met my partner

no don't ever give her any money
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