devilcake wrote: So ive been trying to go to these lgbt meets right,,, not because i like going rly, just cause im trying to like make some friends,,, but im so awkward i literally just it there saying fuckall like a weirdo
Theyre going to a second hand store close to where i work tomorro and i could join but i feel like ill just ruin it for other people by being there :'I
and it's hard cause some of the people have know each other for a while, so it's hard to know when it's just gonna be people wh hang out in the free time as well??? and the its like wow im intruding ))))
Kink wrote: be yourself, find the confidence in yourself to take space, completely and unapologetically you will always be valid no matter what anyone thinks
Kink wrote: be yourself, find the confidence in yourself to take space, completely and unapologetically you will always be valid no matter what anyone thinks
the thing is that when im myself im genuinely quite chatty and it's so frustrating that i can't just get myself to act that way around these people because my anxiety kicks in
devilcake wrote: thinking abut typing in the chat that i might come a bit later, and then if i dont i have at least shown i was interested in hanging out with people outside the meetings??????????
devilcake wrote: also sorry for rambling,,, but i suddenly got this rly specific fear of tagging along, and everyone grouping up and me just tailing after someone quietly until im like left alone/ depart from them cause i feel awkward and then im alone and dunno what to go cause like leaving without saying anything is sooo weirddd
devilcake wrote: thinking abut typing in the chat that i might come a bit later, and then if i dont i have at least shown i was interested in hanging out with people outside the meetings??????????
devilcake wrote: also sorry for rambling,,, but i suddenly got this rly specific fear of tagging along, and everyone grouping up and me just tailing after someone quietly until im like left alone/ depart from them cause i feel awkward and then im alone and dunno what to go cause like leaving without saying anything is sooo weirddd
Ah yes feeling like u add literally nothing to a group is shit :/ just pretend you're best friends with everyone I guess
Azriel wrote: YES thats how to socialise Just pretend ur besties with everyone even though you only met them once jsut go like "hey!!!!! I missed u!!!!" And ppl will love u
devilcake wrote: thinking abut typing in the chat that i might come a bit later, and then if i dont i have at least shown i was interested in hanging out with people outside the meetings??????????
Ur thinking this through too much
i know lmao i ovethink everything thats the problem
Azriel wrote: YES thats how to socialise Just pretend ur besties with everyone even though you only met them once jsut go like "hey!!!!! I missed u!!!!" And ppl will love u