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Clegane wrote:
My boyfriend is in the hospital since january and I call him every day
Well since a few weeks the call quality has really been lacking and sometimes I barely understand him
well today again, I told him I just can't hear him and he got angry and tried to explain that he doesn't want to talk loud in a hospital room with another patient in there and told me I probably wouldn't feel comfortable calling someone at all if I were in his situation

So I asked if he didn't want me to call anymore and 
he got super pissed at me for suggesting it and when I asked him to not be mad he said "of course I am, my girlfriend is shit"

Anyways, I told him I had intended to give him some joy with my call, which didn't work out
and ended the call 

I'm just 
Idk
I've never been called a shit girlfriend before
I'm really trying 
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Date: 03-03-2022 20:19 | Times changed: 2
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Alam wrote:
Being in hospital is hard, try not to take it to heart.
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Date: 03-03-2022 20:25
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SYRE wrote:
Alam wrote:
Being in hospital is hard, try not to take it to heart.
even if it is, its not an excuse to be rude to someone that cares for you
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Date: 03-03-2022 20:29
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Alam wrote:
SYRE wrote:
Alam wrote:
Being in hospital is hard, try not to take it to heart.
even if it is, its not an excuse to be rude to someone that cares for you
It's not an excuse, it's a reality of illness. People aren't always pleasant.
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Date: 03-03-2022 20:31
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Sylvan wrote:
I really don't want to like intrude or anything, but this man has done so many bad things to you over the past 2 years. That's the sad thing.

It's normal to call others from hospital rooms, I'm sure you don't talk to him for hours and hours.
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Date: 03-03-2022 20:33
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kagura wrote:
Alam wrote:
SYRE wrote:
Alam wrote:
Being in hospital is hard, try not to take it to heart.
even if it is, its not an excuse to be rude to someone that cares for you
It's not an excuse, it's a reality of illness. People aren't always pleasant.
yes, but idk i know i'm usually the weird one so i guess i might  be wrong, but in my world you don't act out to your partner and call them shitty when you feel bad
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Date: 03-03-2022 20:34
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Sofia wrote:
SYRE wrote:
Alam wrote:
Being in hospital is hard, try not to take it to heart.
even if it is, its not an excuse to be rude to someone that cares for you
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Date: 03-03-2022 20:56
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
every single time i see a thread from u , i literally say a prayer to god asking him to help u soon see the light n leave ur boyfriend. i cant bear it
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Date: 03-03-2022 21:11
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Arthema wrote:
Alam wrote:
SYRE wrote:
Alam wrote:
Being in hospital is hard, try not to take it to heart.
even if it is, its not an excuse to be rude to someone that cares for you
It's not an excuse, it's a reality of illness. People aren't always pleasant.
Most of those times after YEARS it's not the illness
it's the person using this illness to be a shit person
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Date: 03-03-2022 21:21
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I hope he calls\messages back and apologizes.

I understand getting upset and saying things you don't mean when you're in a stressful situation, and not wanting to talk loud in shared spaces. I'm a low talker, and I have had people in my family that struggled to speak clearly\loud enough, so I know the annoyance on both sides. Frustration happens, so the first instance is unlikely personal, but it still is allowed to hurt as it was uncalled for. It doesn't justify it, of course, and adding in all your other threads, this might be a good time to just think about how you want to move forward with it when he gets out of the hospital, if not earlier.

Some bad communication doesn't make you a bad girlfriend. One instance doesn't get to define you that way. I hope you know that. You have made long-term efforts to call him and be there for him. That's not a bad girlfriend.

take a day or two to contemplate your relationship tbh and if he's giving you want you want, need and if you think you might deserve better than some of the dynamics in ur relationship thus far. up to u.
Date: 03-03-2022 21:24
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Claire wrote:
Alam wrote:
SYRE wrote:
Alam wrote:
Being in hospital is hard, try not to take it to heart.
even if it is, its not an excuse to be rude to someone that cares for you
It's not an excuse, it's a reality of illness. People aren't always pleasant.
i think how excusable this is depends on why hes in the hospital and whether or not this fits into a pattern of behavior which it probably does because nobody on vp has a decent boyfriend 
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Date: 03-03-2022 21:28
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Claire wrote:
Claire wrote:
Alam wrote:
SYRE wrote:
even if it is, its not an excuse to be rude to someone that cares for you
It's not an excuse, it's a reality of illness. People aren't always pleasant.
i think how excusable this is depends on why hes in the hospital and whether or not this fits into a pattern of behavior which it probably does because nobody on vp has a decent boyfriend 
cause like youre right alam lmfao people can be nasty when they dont feel good and not mean it

but like 'hes in the hospital for months' isnt enough context for me 
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Date: 03-03-2022 21:29
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wrote:
Claire wrote:
Alam wrote:
SYRE wrote:
even if it is, its not an excuse to be rude to someone that cares for you
It's not an excuse, it's a reality of illness. People aren't always pleasant.
i think how excusable this is depends on why hes in the hospital and whether or not this fits into a pattern of behavior which it probably does because nobody on vp has a decent boyfriend 
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Date: 03-03-2022 21:29
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emogirrrl123 wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
every single time i see a thread from u , i literally say a prayer to god asking him to help u soon see the light n leave ur boyfriend. i cant bear it
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Date: 03-03-2022 21:59 | Times changed: 1
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disposable wrote:
sure you can get grumpy when you're staying at the hospital for months but to call you gf shit is not ok. hope he has atleast apologized to you

if i were you i would stop calling. it would make me furious if my bf ever said something like that to me.
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Date: 03-03-2022 22:04
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emogirrrl123 wrote:
disposable wrote:
sure you can get grumpy when you're staying at the hospital for months but to call you gf shit is not ok. hope he has atleast apologized to you

if i were you i would stop calling. it would make me furious if my bf ever said something like that to me.
if my bf would say something like that i would leave him
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Date: 03-03-2022 22:08
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