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How do I stop myself from
Alam
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Alam wrote:
spending money I don't need to spend? 
I don't have really any expenses at the moment, I live at home, I don't drive, I don't buy food, we have universal healthcare but my parents pay for my meds because they're kind and I'm 18 and I don't have an income.
I have some savings in the bank, nothing liveable by any means but a favourable amount, enough to blow on stupid shit. And I want to, I really want to. I'm stopping myself but at this point I see no point in having my money sit there when I want to spend it on something.

TW mentol illness and uhh sue of side


I never really saw myself living for many more years so it's hard to try to be responsible and save up when you don't think you have anything to save for, you know? I'm fine, I'm not gonna hurt myself any time soon, don't worry, but I still don't think about the future. I'll fantasize about the future, sure, I'll imagine studying something I'm interested in, having lots of pets, having a partner, but I don't plan for it, does that make sense? I don't see it happening so it's just a fantasy.
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Date: 27-03-2022 15:16 | Times changed: 1
Alam
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Alam wrote:
This is more of a rant than me seeking actual advice, really.
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Date: 27-03-2022 15:22
Alam
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Alam wrote:
I think the only thing stopping me from spending all my money on stuff I don't need is that there's so much stuff I want that I don't need that I don't know what to buy first. Yikers, I'm a materialist.
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Date: 27-03-2022 17:05 | Times changed: 1
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Yes me spending probably 6000+ € in less than a year on bullshit stuff I don't even remmeber 
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Date: 27-03-2022 17:07
Alam
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Alam wrote:
ouch wrote:
Yes me spending probably 6000+ € in less than a year on bullshit stuff I don't even remmeber 
Yeah I don't think I've spent this much money in my entire life 
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Date: 27-03-2022 17:08
Alam
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Alam wrote:
Alam wrote:
ouch wrote:
Yes me spending probably 6000+ € in less than a year on bullshit stuff I don't even remmeber 
Yeah I don't think I've spent this much money in my entire life 
Of my own money, that is, my parents spent much much more money on me, unfortunately.
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Date: 27-03-2022 17:09
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ArianaGrande wrote:
relatable, maybe you could start executing short-term plans and that will motivate you to actually get started with the long-term. seems unnecessary but the feeling of accomplishment you get from it outdoes any instant satisfaction like retail therapy yes .. dunno if it made sense but but, it will make you aware that you can actually do things instead of just fantasizing about them
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Date: 27-03-2022 17:11
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Skin wrote:
Alam wrote:
ouch wrote:
Yes me spending probably 6000+ € in less than a year on bullshit stuff I don't even remmeber 
Yeah I don't think I've spent this much money in my entire life 
Me neither, but once I turned 18 I got money for my birthday obv, got some money that my dad had saved for me (half of that went into a bank account for saving for a house or smth tho n u can't take it out from there once its in there so thats the only reason I didn't spend it lol), so I started buying all random crap, some clothes, makeup etc, small stuff, but mostly alcohol and tobacco I assume, cus if u spend money on that in norway the money just kind of very easily gets spent lmao

now I don't spend as much tho cus I have no money rip me, regretting using it all now
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Date: 27-03-2022 17:11
Alam
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Alam wrote:
hmm wrote:
relatable, maybe you could start executing short-term plans and that will motivate you to actually get started with the long-term. seems unnecessary but the feeling of accomplishment you get from it outdoes any instant satisfaction like retail therapy yes .. dunno if it made sense but but, it will make you aware that you can actually do things instead of just fantasizing about them
I am, sort of, I'm -trying to- get into this program for young people with mental health issues, it's like an apartment thing where they help you find a job/enlist for national service or other types of volunteer work, I might even try to volunteer for the army after all who knows. It seems like a really good fit, plus it's in Jerusalem which is nice, I like Jerusalem, despite all it's bullshit. My friend lives in Jerusalem too so that would be very convenient. I had an interview with a therapist from there (and my parents) and now I'm supposed to have another one without my parents so I called and left a voicemail and they said they'd return the call but they didn't I cry I'll have to call again I hate calling this is humiliating.
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Date: 27-03-2022 17:18
Alam
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Alam wrote:
Skin wrote:
Alam wrote:
ouch wrote:
Yes me spending probably 6000+ € in less than a year on bullshit stuff I don't even remmeber 
Yeah I don't think I've spent this much money in my entire life 
Me neither, but once I turned 18 I got money for my birthday obv, got some money that my dad had saved for me (half of that went into a bank account for saving for a house or smth tho n u can't take it out from there once its in there so thats the only reason I didn't spend it lol), so I started buying all random crap, some clothes, makeup etc, small stuff, but mostly alcohol and tobacco I assume, cus if u spend money on that in norway the money just kind of very easily gets spent lmao

now I don't spend as much tho cus I have no money rip me, regretting using it all now
That's a lot of money Ouchie
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Date: 27-03-2022 17:18
ArianaGrande
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ArianaGrande wrote:
Alam wrote:
hmm wrote:
relatable, maybe you could start executing short-term plans and that will motivate you to actually get started with the long-term. seems unnecessary but the feeling of accomplishment you get from it outdoes any instant satisfaction like retail therapy yes .. dunno if it made sense but but, it will make you aware that you can actually do things instead of just fantasizing about them
I am, sort of, I'm -trying to- get into this program for young people with mental health issues, it's like an apartment thing where they help you find a job/enlist for national service or other types of volunteer work, I might even try to volunteer for the army after all who knows. It seems like a really good fit, plus it's in Jerusalem which is nice, I like Jerusalem, despite all it's bullshit. My friend lives in Jerusalem too so that would be very convenient. I had an interview with a therapist from there (and my parents) and now I'm supposed to have another one without my parents so I called and left a voicemail and they said they'd return the call but they didn't I cry I'll have to call again I hate calling this is humiliating.
: (  you'll have to call again indeed, hopefully it works out
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Date: 27-03-2022 17:19
Alam
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Alam wrote:
hmm wrote:
Alam wrote:
hmm wrote:
relatable, maybe you could start executing short-term plans and that will motivate you to actually get started with the long-term. seems unnecessary but the feeling of accomplishment you get from it outdoes any instant satisfaction like retail therapy yes .. dunno if it made sense but but, it will make you aware that you can actually do things instead of just fantasizing about them
I am, sort of, I'm -trying to- get into this program for young people with mental health issues, it's like an apartment thing where they help you find a job/enlist for national service or other types of volunteer work, I might even try to volunteer for the army after all who knows. It seems like a really good fit, plus it's in Jerusalem which is nice, I like Jerusalem, despite all it's bullshit. My friend lives in Jerusalem too so that would be very convenient. I had an interview with a therapist from there (and my parents) and now I'm supposed to have another one without my parents so I called and left a voicemail and they said they'd return the call but they didn't I cry I'll have to call again I hate calling this is humiliating.
: (  you'll have to call again indeed, hopefully it works out
Yeah if they don't call me tomorrow mornin I'll call again. I called twice already this is so embarrassing they're truly playing hard to get.
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Date: 27-03-2022 17:20
ArianaGrande
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ArianaGrande wrote:
Alam wrote:
hmm wrote:
Alam wrote:
I am, sort of, I'm -trying to- get into this program for young people with mental health issues, it's like an apartment thing where they help you find a job/enlist for national service or other types of volunteer work, I might even try to volunteer for the army after all who knows. It seems like a really good fit, plus it's in Jerusalem which is nice, I like Jerusalem, despite all it's bullshit. My friend lives in Jerusalem too so that would be very convenient. I had an interview with a therapist from there (and my parents) and now I'm supposed to have another one without my parents so I called and left a voicemail and they said they'd return the call but they didn't I cry I'll have to call again I hate calling this is humiliating.
: (  you'll have to call again indeed, hopefully it works out
Yeah if they don't call me tomorrow mornin I'll call again. I called twice already this is so embarrassing they're truly playing hard to get.
some services be like that it is very annoying but alas, better safe than sorry or whichever term fits this yes
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Date: 27-03-2022 17:21
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ouch wrote:
Alam wrote:
Skin wrote:
Alam wrote:
Yeah I don't think I've spent this much money in my entire life 
Me neither, but once I turned 18 I got money for my birthday obv, got some money that my dad had saved for me (half of that went into a bank account for saving for a house or smth tho n u can't take it out from there once its in there so thats the only reason I didn't spend it lol), so I started buying all random crap, some clothes, makeup etc, small stuff, but mostly alcohol and tobacco I assume, cus if u spend money on that in norway the money just kind of very easily gets spent lmao

now I don't spend as much tho cus I have no money rip me, regretting using it all now
That's a lot of money Ouchie
A lot of money but I close my eyes to the reality of my stupidness cus now I rlly rlly lack money 
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Date: 27-03-2022 17:22
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ouch wrote:
Yes me spending probably 6000+ € in less than a year on bullshit stuff I don't even remmeber 
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Date: 27-03-2022 17:22
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misjel wrote:
Pursue minimalism, embrace frugality
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