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World Famous

Clegane wrote:
There was this guy I met in October 2020, that I had a huuuge crush on and is still in my heart somewhat because he was my first love

We were kind of lovers.. but not really legitimately because he was a really confusing person and I think because of past rejection and just kind of introverted tendencies he wasn't looking to actively be in a relationship

nowadays we still text occasionally (as friends)

Anyways, yesterday I sent him a pic of the bunny teapot I wanted to buy just because I wanted to share how cute it was...
The pic was a screenshot from the website and had the price on it
and this guy just sent me the money for it???? Like out of the blue 😳

He was like "see it as a kind of belated birthday present"

But my birthday was in November???

Idk it's a cute gesture but makes my feelings all confused

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Minister of Pop

Heartbroken wrote:
i have a friend like this.

VERY sweet, but it came to the point wher ei had to tell him to take a break in buying atuff bc i felt weird abt it. i felt it seemed like i was using him, when it wasnt my intention whatsoever

obviously idk this guy of your or how you'd feel if he kept going but smart to set boundaries early

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World Famous

Clegane wrote:

Heartbroken wrote:
i have a friend like this.

VERY sweet, but it came to the point wher ei had to tell him to take a break in buying atuff bc i felt weird abt it. i felt it seemed like i was using him, when it wasnt my intention whatsoever

obviously idk this guy of your or how you'd feel if he kept going but smart to set boundaries early

Tbh I think this was a one time thing

But I'm still so flashed that he did that?????

Also yeah... I would've been so uncomfortable too if I were you in that situation... that's just... too much 😬

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Popstar

Melody wrote:
friends do that too sometimes from my experience

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Minister of Pop

Heartbroken wrote:

Clegane wrote:

Heartbroken wrote:
i have a friend like this.

VERY sweet, but it came to the point wher ei had to tell him to take a break in buying atuff bc i felt weird abt it. i felt it seemed like i was using him, when it wasnt my intention whatsoever

obviously idk this guy of your or how you'd feel if he kept going but smart to set boundaries early

Tbh I think this was a one time thing

But I'm still so flashed that he did that?????

Also yeah... I would've been so uncomfortable too if I were you in that situation... that's just... too much 😬

okie i see

thats understandable! Just remeber that you dont HAVE to accept if it makes you uncomfortable*

yeah like he was buying me games for like 500 nok each and just anything i mentioned wanting he'd immediatly offer buying which is why i had to have a,oiol talk with him, and he's agreed tohold back til my birthday now at least <3

Solar
National Star

Solar wrote:
my ex likes to buy me stuff when we hang out (we have the same friend group) & i let her because she knows it won't change anything in our current situation. she likes to buy me stuff because it makes her feel good, makes her feel macho she said. so yk,, who am i to disagree

Solar
National Star

Solar wrote:

Clegane wrote:

Heartbroken wrote:
i have a friend like this.

VERY sweet, but it came to the point wher ei had to tell him to take a break in buying atuff bc i felt weird abt it. i felt it seemed like i was using him, when it wasnt my intention whatsoever

obviously idk this guy of your or how you'd feel if he kept going but smart to set boundaries early

Tbh I think this was a one time thing

But I'm still so flashed that he did that?????

Also yeah... I would've been so uncomfortable too if I were you in that situation... that's just... too much 😬

i think if it was the one time thing, he really just thought of it as a birthday gift! maybe he's felt bad for a while that he didnt get you anything x

Kazuha
Streetmusician

Kazuha wrote:
thats kind of cute tho