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PaintItPink wrote:
So I spend like 2-4hrs every day with my long distance bf talking. When the relationship was newer we spent every free second talking, but I just don't want that anymore.
I don't get as excited about it as I used to and he seems to still want the same amount of time whereas for me its kinda like I feel I have to talk to him and I do want to but like 2hrs is legit enough for me now, but he keeps complaining that I'm spending less time and all, and honestly it just gets on my nerves? I really don't feel for him, he should grow up man...
Is it over or something? Have I lost interest
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Date: 23-04-2022 09:11
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HappyDoer wrote:
Let it play out, and keep being honest with yourself and him. If you don't want to be in a relationship with him anymore, it'll show and come out. Until then, maybe it's just that you need more time to yourself. 
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Date: 23-04-2022 09:19
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Kofod wrote:
Long distance is hard. You should talk it through with him perhaps, balance things so you know what you can expect and he knows what he should expect.
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Date: 23-04-2022 09:23
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strojno wrote:
What worked for me was being in voice chat while just playing games or working on my pc, or playing games and watching shows together. There's no need to talk all the time, not even irl couples can talk as much. Just spending time together existing helps enough in ldrs.
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Date: 23-04-2022 09:33
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PaintItPink wrote:
Kofod wrote:
Long distance is hard. You should talk it through with him perhaps, balance things so you know what you can expect and he knows what he should expect.
I just don't know how to say that to him. I mean, I can't just say I am not as excited about you as I sued to be and spending 2 hrs with you is enough for me, lol
Im bad at phrasing stuff better
And the thing is I do enjoy the time we spend irl which is like once very two months and is always good fun and stuff, but spending online time doesnt have the same quality..
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Date: 23-04-2022 10:52
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Kofod wrote:
PaintItPink wrote:
Kofod wrote:
Long distance is hard. You should talk it through with him perhaps, balance things so you know what you can expect and he knows what he should expect.
I just don't know how to say that to him. I mean, I can't just say I am not as excited about you as I sued to be and spending 2 hrs with you is enough for me, lol
Im bad at phrasing stuff better
And the thing is I do enjoy the time we spend irl which is like once very two months and is always good fun and stuff, but spending online time doesnt have the same quality..
Honestly I understand where you're coming from. I felt the same way with my ex, just we didn't see each other at all.
Talk to him about how you feel still, you don't have to say "hey I don't feel about you the same way as I did" but put some of your concerns into words, tell him that you don't have a need to talk for as long everytime you talk together, you've got your own things to deal with too. Then maybe sometimes you can have longer conversations or do things together online since forcing conversation truly does nothing good for a relationship imo.
Strojno suggested some things you could do together on the days you spend longer with each other. It's a good compromise I'd say.
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Date: 23-04-2022 11:39
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