Rouya wrote:
when you begin to become bored in your relationship? like sexually, personally, physically. idk. i feel like im starting to become bored, even though im very happy with my bf, i love him and it's the best relationship ive ever been in. it's also however the longest relationship ive been in, and i was head over heels for him in the beginning, but im not anymore, and while i assume that's normal i still don't know what to do with these feelings and idk if i can talk with my friends about it just yet, so here i am on vp testing out how to talk about some feelings i may or may not be having. i have no intention whatsoever of breaking up (atm) bc i love him a lot and i love being with him, but it's just starting to become a bit mundane and im longing for excitement
also we've been together almost 3 years now
give me input
edit: everyone saying "communicate with him" the problem is also that i dont know how to talk about this or what to say