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when you begin to become bored in your relationship? like sexually, personally, physically. idk. i feel like im starting to become bored, even though im very happy with my bf, i love him and it's the best relationship ive ever been in. it's also however the longest relationship ive been in, and i was head over heels for him in the beginning, but im not anymore, and while i assume that's normal i still don't know what to do with these feelings and idk if i can talk with my friends about it just yet, so here i am on vp testing out how to talk about some feelings i may or may not be having. i have no intention whatsoever of breaking up (atm) bc i love him a lot and i love being with him, but it's just starting to become a bit mundane and im longing for excitement

also we've been together almost 3 years now

give me input

edit: everyone saying "communicate with him" the problem is also that i dont know how to talk about this or what to say
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Idk I’ve been with Doug for seven years and I’m not bored. Idk that that’s normal or not. 
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talk to him about it, you gotta do things together that bring back the spark. go on holiday or dates or something, just sth that makes it feel special again

n like you can talk to him abt it without offending him if you just say it not like you're bored of him, but that things in the relationship feel a bit mundane and not so exciting anymore n you want to bring that specialness back
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Claire wrote:
Idk I’ve been with Doug for seven years and I’m not bored. Idk that that’s normal or not. 
hmm
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Claire wrote:
Idk I’ve been with Doug for seven years and I’m not bored. Idk that that’s normal or not. 
you still in love also? or how is your relationship now compared to the beginning?
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Limbs wrote:
talk to him about it, you gotta do things together that bring back the spark. go on holiday or dates or something, just sth that makes it feel special again

n like you can talk to him abt it without offending him if you just say it not like you're bored of him, but that things in the relationship feel a bit mundane and not so exciting anymore n you want to bring that specialness back
hmm yeah could try. im still at a point rn tho where idk what to say or what it is that i want or what i feel is missing. and he’s unfortunately not very helpful when i dont know what i want or what to say. i feel like i need to figure that out before i can talk about it with him
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Rouya wrote:
Claire wrote:
Idk I’ve been with Doug for seven years and I’m not bored. Idk that that’s normal or not. 
you still in love also? or how is your relationship now compared to the beginning?
It’s more comfortable. But he’s just as much fun and sexy as he always was.  But now he knows me so good so it’s like idk. It just gets better all the time. And sometimes we fight and we learn from our fights and idk. He’s my best friend. 
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i was feeling this way about my relationship too. we do the same things all the time, talk about the same things.. but i’m not rly bored. i was just like wow we’ve been together for so long, the honeymoon phase is kinda over and this is it i guess 
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Maybe find something new you can do together as a couple. Trying to make things more exciting on different perspectives of the relationship might help.
But also discussing the issue with your bf might help, to see where you both can do an effort to make things more interesting for both of you.
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Claire wrote:
Rouya wrote:
Claire wrote:
Idk I’ve been with Doug for seven years and I’m not bored. Idk that that’s normal or not. 
you still in love also? or how is your relationship now compared to the beginning?
It’s more comfortable. But he’s just as much fun and sexy as he always was.  But now he knows me so good so it’s like idk. It just gets better all the time. And sometimes we fight and we learn from our fights and idk. He’s my best friend. 
i can relate to all of this except the finding him as sexy as in the beginning. i think that is the problem. idk ig if im being HONEST then ive been thinking about my first real relationship (which lasted 1,5 years) and while we werent that compatible personally (which i am with my current bf) i just was ALWAYS attracted to him, best sex of my life. i dont have that with my current bf. i do think hes hot but its just not the same attraction, not the same intensity. and rn im not even sure if im attracted to him (he’s still good looking but you know). and its definitely not the best sex of my life 😭
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do something exciting with him, something you dont usually do? if you love him youre probably not necessarily bored of him but the ordinariness of the relationship. like go on a weird new date or try something new sexually or smthn
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mimi309 wrote:
do something exciting with him, something you dont usually do? if you love him youre probably not necessarily bored of him but the ordinariness of the relationship. like go on a weird new date or try something new sexually or smthn
yes i have been thinking about this hmm
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Kofod wrote:
Maybe find something new you can do together as a couple. Trying to make things more exciting on different perspectives of the relationship might help.
But also discussing the issue with your bf might help, to see where you both can do an effort to make things more interesting for both of you.
yes hmmm idk what to do though or how to talk about it with him. trying to figure that out rn
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liv wrote:
i was feeling this way about my relationship too. we do the same things all the time, talk about the same things.. but i’m not rly bored. i was just like wow we’ve been together for so long, the honeymoon phase is kinda over and this is it i guess 
the honeymoon phase has been over for a while, i just havent been bored until now
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Rouya wrote:
Kofod wrote:
Maybe find something new you can do together as a couple. Trying to make things more exciting on different perspectives of the relationship might help.
But also discussing the issue with your bf might help, to see where you both can do an effort to make things more interesting for both of you.
yes hmmm idk what to do though or how to talk about it with him. trying to figure that out rn
Take your time. It's better to have it figured somewhat out before heading into it, everything can get chaotic.
I remember when things became boring with my former bf - but talking through things really did help.
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