DaddyIssues wrote:
So I was on a date last Saturday. (And have not told anyone this, cause I needed time to process what happened). I think this is sexual assault. But I am not sure...
He were drinking and he had driven to me so we both knew he would stay the night. The date went fine. Slightly boring, but okay.
The day after:
I woke up from him having a hand between my thighs under my clothes. I moved his hand. His respons to me waking up was kissing me, even when I tried to move my head back, and once again putting his hand where I just had moved it from. I moved it again.
For some reason I fell asleep again and woke up TO THE SAME THING. I this time moved his hand and told him that I wasn't in the mood. He replied "But I am" and tried to kiss me again.
I had to move his hand, say no and back away from him time and time again. In the end, I left my own bed since he legit could not understand what I told him.
He was awake and sober during that whole time.
I texted him today and asked why.
His respons. (Translated)
"I don't know why, It just happened"
"Never been on a date with a girl that was like you. I felt like I could say anything"
"For some reason I did something I knew was wrong"
"I am sorry and ashamed"