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Sylvan wrote:
Okay so maybe this is an autism thing or a spent too much time alone as a kid bc I lived in the middle of nowhere thing, but I find it incredibly hard to gain access to social groups and circles.

I try to be nice and open and make an effort but try not to come on too strong. After the first few days I'm still always left out of stuff.

Sometimes it's on me, I feel like if you say no one time bc you are tired they never ask again.

Maybe it's my resting bitch face who knows
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Date: 05-05-2022 11:13 | Times changed: 1
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Potion wrote:
what about taking initiative (that sounded rude dont get me wrong here my brain is at like 10% capacity its not supposed to mean "make effort ur not doing it" but that ur the one that comes up w plans n invites) to excplicit social events like "hey guys what abt grabbing a beer tonight theres a cool dj at x place" or "i wanna do this acitivity what abt we make a day of it" etc?
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Date: 05-05-2022 11:28
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Suchomimus wrote:
i feel this too, i feel like it's v hard if ur not friends w ppl at ur job or uni or something, n i'm always too aloof or too much idk how to do it ehhhh and when ppl have already established their friend group i feel like they're reluctant to let other ppl in
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Date: 05-05-2022 11:39
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devilcake wrote:
Yeah I feel like this too and then a lot of the time I see other new people join a specific group I’ve been trying to make friends with with no issues and I’m like oh okay it is just me then fuck
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Date: 05-05-2022 11:58
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sapovnela wrote:
ah yes, i know the struggle. i'm trying to socialize but talking requires so much energy and i feel like new people don't really like me cause you gotta be open and talk about random interesting bullshits but i rarely talk and just uhhh how do you do it man. also when i'm around people i usually never get attention when i try to talk and then i'm like uuuuh okay let me just sit back and observe and then ofc i don't get attention. but one of my uni mates acknowledged that even if i'm not much of a social butterfly i do try and that felt kinda great ngl
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Date: 05-05-2022 12:48
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ouch wrote:
Me too, idk how I have the friends I have now tbh cus I cannot gain friends in a space where I don't already know someone. Like theres smth abt me that makes me unapproachable I guess but idk what
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Date: 05-05-2022 13:08
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ArianaGrande wrote:
it probably only works if you're already close with at least 1 or 2 people in said groups so maybe focusing more on them as individuals and not as a group would help
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Date: 05-05-2022 14:26
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Shila wrote:
confidence is 1000% key when you want to make friends or do anything.
come on strong, it's fine. only say or do things that feel authentic to you. even if they're weird. just don't doubt yourself.
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Date: 05-05-2022 14:30
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