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i randomly got 70e today, and i was for the first time in a long time out w a friend to the library then to the mall. i always "want" stuff but i can never get myself to buy anything. if its not something ive been wanting/needing for months before i buy it i have trouble doing so. idk why im really bad with money, and can spend money on this site whenever but it feels as if it doesnt count when i do it? like spending 6-24e here vs irl feels different somehow.

but i went with the mentality that i want to buy myself something, and theres so many things i found, esp clothes, that i just !! want to get. i never buy clothes, and its not like i havent been planning to spend money on clothes this spring either cause i have? for months lol
i just dont get it but im all !!i want it and need it! and 5 seconds later i shame myself and i just ugh. i do need new clothes, i dont feel good or confident in the clothes i have. nothing fits, but i feel so much guilt esp since i dont have that much money. 

idk im so stressed i tried on and found some really cute clothes, and found a pair of pants that fit perfect and were soo cute and ??i only have two pairs of pants that fit so ??. i already know im going out cause a friend is buying me pants for my bday lol, some basic regular ones. the ones i tried on today were orange(like a 70s orange vibe), and probs wont fit everything i own but felt so nice. 

i hate this lol i just want to buy myself new clothes with my own money because i can afford it rn for the first time but even 15e feels like too much. its not tho? am i being crazy or should i be this strict w it lol?

also i am in debt, though i have a person taking care of it (økonomisk verge ?? idk what thats in english). all my money go through him so this was a random transfer from someone else. would it be dumb to go back tomorrow and spend the 15e on the pants, and maybe even get a matching top? i know im rambling a lot but im stressed out haha
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Date: 06-05-2022 18:23
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I spend all the money 
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Date: 06-05-2022 18:24
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Hufsa wrote:
ouch wrote:
I spend all the money 
but what if i regret it
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Date: 06-05-2022 18:28
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ouch wrote:
Hufsa wrote:
ouch wrote:
I spend all the money 
but what if i regret it
I just forget I have ever spent the moeny so I don't regret it. Also if its like "extra" money it doesn't rlly matter, at least if u spend it on clothes n stuff and not random food 
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Date: 06-05-2022 18:29
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Hufsa wrote:
ouch wrote:
Hufsa wrote:
ouch wrote:
I spend all the money 
but what if i regret it
I just forget I have ever spent the moeny so I don't regret it. Also if its like "extra" money it doesn't rlly matter, at least if u spend it on clothes n stuff and not random food 
hmm you do have a point
and i do technically have 300e if something bad happens, plus the money ill get next week so thats like 1-200e too. uhh yea i mean i can see now it sounds dumb idek 
ill see how i feel about it tomorrow. thankfully i already tried the pants so wont need to do that if im buying them, hate trying on clothes in store its truly a nightmare esp alone.
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Date: 06-05-2022 18:36
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I feel guilt spending money too so I only buy food basically. When I do something that needed lots of energy, I reward myself by buying cosmetics or books or I visit  second hand shops...
You shouldn't feel guilt if you are the one earning the money for yourself tho
It's your money, do what ever you want with it.
Date: 06-05-2022 18:37
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What I would consider the most is how often will you use orange pants and if you need to get additional items to be able to use it, then it's maybe not the best idea(?)

However, at least for me, it feels a bit oouf spending money (even if I have it) but when I see myself loving it and using it, that dissappears because it has obtained an value in my life that outweights the initial idea that I don't deserve to spend money on nice things for myself. If you think anything similar to me, then being sure that you will be able to use the pants on several occations and that you have clothes in your wd that already makes it easy to style will be a plus. But you obvi. also get to buy stuff that just are statements. I would wait over the weekend, if that's an option, and then go back and see if you love it as much then. 
 
Date: 06-05-2022 18:37
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Hufsa wrote:
ouch wrote:
Hufsa wrote:
but what if i regret it
I just forget I have ever spent the moeny so I don't regret it. Also if its like "extra" money it doesn't rlly matter, at least if u spend it on clothes n stuff and not random food 
hmm you do have a point
and i do technically have 300e if something bad happens, plus the money ill get next week so thats like 1-200e too. uhh yea i mean i can see now it sounds dumb idek 
ill see how i feel about it tomorrow. thankfully i already tried the pants so wont need to do that if im buying them, hate trying on clothes in store its truly a nightmare esp alone.
True lol, trying on clothes with friends/siblings is fun, but alone its very awkward
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Date: 06-05-2022 18:39
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I feel a lot of guilt shopping bc of a combo of like spending guilt and feeling like I’m ruining the planet and killing five children or smth every time I buy one (1) thing. But also I think a positive consequence of not buying a lot of stuff is that u often end up rly appreciating it that one time you do, even if you gotta get over the hassle of buying it first,,, like the times I do buy clothes I will always live in that item for like a solid month. So idk yeah if it’s extra money anyways and you have some items you can wear the pants with, go for it :0 worst case scenario you try them on at home and return them maybe?
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Hufsa wrote:
NOface wrote:
I feel guilt spending money too so I only buy food basically. When I do something that needed lots of energy, I reward myself by buying cosmetics or books or I visit  second hand shops...
You shouldn't feel guilt if you are the one earning the money for yourself tho
It's your money, do what ever you want with it.
yee food feels fine to buy but other stuff is just ,, istg i feel like me buying clothes esp if its not second hand type shit is ruining the entire planet ?? yeh
it makes sense, its mine, but ugh my head goes no thats illegal 
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Date: 06-05-2022 18:44
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What I would consider the most is how often will you use orange pants and if you need to get additional items to be able to use it, then it's maybe not the best idea(?)

However, at least for me, it feels a bit oouf spending money (even if I have it) but when I see myself loving it and using it, that dissappears because it has obtained an value in my life that outweights the initial idea that I don't deserve to spend money on nice things for myself. If you think anything similar to me, then being sure that you will be able to use the pants on several occations and that you have clothes in your wd that already makes it easy to style will be a plus. But you obvi. also get to buy stuff that just are statements. I would wait over the weekend, if that's an option, and then go back and see if you love it as much then. 
 
i did think of that, and i think a lot i hav would fit. its kinda like a cute fit with a lot of the colors i usually wear. which is a plumb purple and lavender-ish, plus deep green. eee im so tied up with this it would also be nice to wear some statement pants, like yes here i am. i dont want to buy but what if i do want them on monday and theyre sold out in my size hhhh //: 
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Date: 06-05-2022 18:47
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Hufsa wrote:
ouch wrote:
Hufsa wrote:
ouch wrote:
I just forget I have ever spent the moeny so I don't regret it. Also if its like "extra" money it doesn't rlly matter, at least if u spend it on clothes n stuff and not random food 
hmm you do have a point
and i do technically have 300e if something bad happens, plus the money ill get next week so thats like 1-200e too. uhh yea i mean i can see now it sounds dumb idek 
ill see how i feel about it tomorrow. thankfully i already tried the pants so wont need to do that if im buying them, hate trying on clothes in store its truly a nightmare esp alone.
True lol, trying on clothes with friends/siblings is fun, but alone its very awkward
its just silence, and you have to be your own judge. standing there staring in the mirror like an idiot oof
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Date: 06-05-2022 18:48
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Hufsa wrote:
devilcake wrote:
I feel a lot of guilt shopping bc of a combo of like spending guilt and feeling like I’m ruining the planet and killing five children or smth every time I buy one (1) thing. But also I think a positive consequence of not buying a lot of stuff is that u often end up rly appreciating it that one time you do, even if you gotta get over the hassle of buying it first,,, like the times I do buy clothes I will always live in that item for like a solid month. So idk yeah if it’s extra money anyways and you have some items you can wear the pants with, go for it :0 worst case scenario you try them on at home and return them maybe?
aaah !!! this fr
and hah lol id totally forgotten i could return it. that just swept past me huh,, well that makes it not that stressful actually 
unless i ruin them on the way home. still i use 16e on snus a week ?? pants will be wearable for the next 2-3 years at least so ye
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Date: 06-05-2022 18:50
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aight ill think through this weekend, and ill see how it goes. would be nice to get something tho even if its not the pants, though they were hot. maybe ill go in slow with ordering a book at first, and see if i want to die. 11/10 love anxiety and being a pro at making myself feel guilty lmaoo
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Hufsa wrote:
Eostre wrote:
What I would consider the most is how often will you use orange pants and if you need to get additional items to be able to use it, then it's maybe not the best idea(?)

However, at least for me, it feels a bit oouf spending money (even if I have it) but when I see myself loving it and using it, that dissappears because it has obtained an value in my life that outweights the initial idea that I don't deserve to spend money on nice things for myself. If you think anything similar to me, then being sure that you will be able to use the pants on several occations and that you have clothes in your wd that already makes it easy to style will be a plus. But you obvi. also get to buy stuff that just are statements. I would wait over the weekend, if that's an option, and then go back and see if you love it as much then. 
 
i did think of that, and i think a lot i hav would fit. its kinda like a cute fit with a lot of the colors i usually wear. which is a plumb purple and lavender-ish, plus deep green. eee im so tied up with this it would also be nice to wear some statement pants, like yes here i am. i dont want to buy but what if i do want them on monday and theyre sold out in my size hhhh //: 
do they have klikk og hent i butikk? then you can probably order up to 48 before right to make sure they have your size?
Date: 06-05-2022 19:08
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Hufsa wrote:
Eostre wrote:
Hufsa wrote:
Eostre wrote:
What I would consider the most is how often will you use orange pants and if you need to get additional items to be able to use it, then it's maybe not the best idea(?)

However, at least for me, it feels a bit oouf spending money (even if I have it) but when I see myself loving it and using it, that dissappears because it has obtained an value in my life that outweights the initial idea that I don't deserve to spend money on nice things for myself. If you think anything similar to me, then being sure that you will be able to use the pants on several occations and that you have clothes in your wd that already makes it easy to style will be a plus. But you obvi. also get to buy stuff that just are statements. I would wait over the weekend, if that's an option, and then go back and see if you love it as much then. 
 
i did think of that, and i think a lot i hav would fit. its kinda like a cute fit with a lot of the colors i usually wear. which is a plumb purple and lavender-ish, plus deep green. eee im so tied up with this it would also be nice to wear some statement pants, like yes here i am. i dont want to buy but what if i do want them on monday and theyre sold out in my size hhhh //: 
do they have klikk og hent i butikk? then you can probably order up to 48 before right to make sure they have your size?
didnt think of that and will def do that when i buy clothes if they do that! but i just made a plan to instead use the money for travel to see a friend i havent seen in four years so im very glad i felt too bad to buy anything while at the mall today or else i wouldnt have been able to aha
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Date: 06-05-2022 22:27
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