devilcake wrote:lovelin wrote:devilcake wrote:
like honestly either way ur not the asshole if they have to postpone so you dont have to be with your dad if his an ass and that's that on that, you shouldn't have to feel bad because you dont want to be in a space that is going to make you feel bad
i just dont wanna ruin their honeymoon and then have that be on me for years
being a parent means signing up for having to prioritize your kid sometimes, i dont wanna make any snap judgements about ur bio dad but if he's acting abusive like you described, it's your parents responsibility to make sure not to put you in that situation, even if that means they don't get to do the thing they wanted. imo at least
n maybe they can postpone it to a later date when your aunt has less things to do or in a year or so when they might feel you're ready to be home alone? the nice thing about going on a camper vacay is that you can kind of do it whenever as long as you get time off from work yanno?
i guess so i just hope they dont have to cancel it and hopefully we can work something out