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5sar wrote:
so basically my parents r getting married in june and then going to scotland for a honeymoon a week later they r going for 7 days and i was going to stay home with my step sister but she got kicked out like 2 days ago and shes not going to babysit me now so i would have to go to my dads but last time i went to my dads he screamed in my face telling me he was gonna off himself so i would rather never go there again so now my step dad wants to cancel the honeymoon so i dont have to go but my mum still wants to go and now shes upset and i feel bad but idk am i like in the wrong 
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Date: 09-05-2022 20:28
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5sar wrote:
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Date: 09-05-2022 20:29
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Rotte wrote:
I don't think so and i think your step father seems to care, wanting to respect that you don't want to go there! If they have the funds, can they compromise and bring you?
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Date: 09-05-2022 20:31
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5sar wrote:
Angelica wrote:
I don't think so and i think your step father seems to care, wanting to respect that you don't want to go there! If they have the funds, can they compromise and bring you?
they are going in a camper van so i could go anyways its not about money its my mum doesnt want to me to go with her thats the first thing my step dad offered to do
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Date: 09-05-2022 20:32
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devilcake wrote:
do you have any other relatives/friends you can stay with for a bit?
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Date: 09-05-2022 20:33
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devilcake wrote:
also idk ur situation but is it not an option for you to just be home alone??? i was home alone a week when my fam went on vacay when i was 14 it was very undramatic
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Date: 09-05-2022 20:34
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5sar wrote:
devilcake wrote:
do you have any other relatives/friends you can stay with for a bit?
not really my auntie but she has to to work so i cant go there
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She could hire someone to take care of you, idk how old you are Lovelin 
Date: 09-05-2022 20:34
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5sar wrote:
Eostre wrote:
She could hire someone to take care of you, idk how old you are Lovelin 
im 14 but i dont think they would trust a stranger to look after me for a week
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Date: 09-05-2022 20:36
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devilcake wrote:
lovelin wrote:
devilcake wrote:
do you have any other relatives/friends you can stay with for a bit?
not really my auntie but she has to to work so i cant go there
awe that sucks
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Date: 09-05-2022 20:36
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devilcake wrote:
like honestly either way ur not the asshole if they have to postpone so you dont have to be with your dad if his an ass and that's that on that, you shouldn't have to feel bad because you dont want to be in a space that is going to make you feel bad
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Date: 09-05-2022 20:37
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5sar wrote:
devilcake wrote:
like honestly either way ur not the asshole if they have to postpone so you dont have to be with your dad if his an ass and that's that on that, you shouldn't have to feel bad because you dont want to be in a space that is going to make you feel bad
i just dont wanna ruin their honeymoon and then have that be on me for years
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Date: 09-05-2022 20:41
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devilcake wrote:
lovelin wrote:
devilcake wrote:
like honestly either way ur not the asshole if they have to postpone so you dont have to be with your dad if his an ass and that's that on that, you shouldn't have to feel bad because you dont want to be in a space that is going to make you feel bad
i just dont wanna ruin their honeymoon and then have that be on me for years
being a parent means signing up for having to prioritize your kid sometimes, i dont wanna make any snap judgements about ur bio dad but if he's acting abusive like you described, it's your parents responsibility to make sure not to put you in that situation, even if that means they don't get to do the thing they wanted. imo at least
n maybe they can postpone it to a later date when your aunt has less things to do or in a year or so when they might feel you're ready to be home alone? the nice thing about going on a camper vacay is that you can kind of do it whenever as long as you get time off from work yanno?
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Date: 09-05-2022 20:45
5sar
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5sar wrote:
devilcake wrote:
lovelin wrote:
devilcake wrote:
like honestly either way ur not the asshole if they have to postpone so you dont have to be with your dad if his an ass and that's that on that, you shouldn't have to feel bad because you dont want to be in a space that is going to make you feel bad
i just dont wanna ruin their honeymoon and then have that be on me for years
being a parent means signing up for having to prioritize your kid sometimes, i dont wanna make any snap judgements about ur bio dad but if he's acting abusive like you described, it's your parents responsibility to make sure not to put you in that situation, even if that means they don't get to do the thing they wanted. imo at least
n maybe they can postpone it to a later date when your aunt has less things to do or in a year or so when they might feel you're ready to be home alone? the nice thing about going on a camper vacay is that you can kind of do it whenever as long as you get time off from work yanno?
i guess so i just hope they dont have to cancel it and hopefully we can work something out
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Date: 09-05-2022 20:51
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devilcake wrote:
lovelin wrote:
devilcake wrote:
lovelin wrote:
i just dont wanna ruin their honeymoon and then have that be on me for years
being a parent means signing up for having to prioritize your kid sometimes, i dont wanna make any snap judgements about ur bio dad but if he's acting abusive like you described, it's your parents responsibility to make sure not to put you in that situation, even if that means they don't get to do the thing they wanted. imo at least
n maybe they can postpone it to a later date when your aunt has less things to do or in a year or so when they might feel you're ready to be home alone? the nice thing about going on a camper vacay is that you can kind of do it whenever as long as you get time off from work yanno?
i guess so i just hope they dont have to cancel it and hopefully we can work something out
yeah rooting for yall to find a good solution :)
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Date: 09-05-2022 20:53
5sar
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5sar wrote:
devilcake wrote:
lovelin wrote:
devilcake wrote:
being a parent means signing up for having to prioritize your kid sometimes, i dont wanna make any snap judgements about ur bio dad but if he's acting abusive like you described, it's your parents responsibility to make sure not to put you in that situation, even if that means they don't get to do the thing they wanted. imo at least
n maybe they can postpone it to a later date when your aunt has less things to do or in a year or so when they might feel you're ready to be home alone? the nice thing about going on a camper vacay is that you can kind of do it whenever as long as you get time off from work yanno?
i guess so i just hope they dont have to cancel it and hopefully we can work something out
yeah rooting for yall to find a good solution

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