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did I overreact ??
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pups wrote:
so I'm moving to a new apartment by myself and today I had to stay there because I was getting some furniture delivered. two men came to deliver it, one of them sort of looked at me funny (idk why) anyways once they put all of the stuff in one left and one stayed and said ´´so are you alone, do you have someone to help you put these together?´´ and I was taken aback and said ´´yeah im alone right now..why?´´ then he says ´I will help you put them together tomorrow after work. we have your number´´I was like okay..thank you so much. then he leaves and after a few mins I get a phone call  of him saying ´actually I just talked to my partner and we have done enough deliveries for today we can come back in and help you now´ánd he said this in a weird tone so I started overthinking and was like actually there is no need thank you! then he said okay but in an annoyed voice. I understand some people are nice enough to help others for free, but my gut was telling me something was off about this =( not sure how I feel about staying in a new empty place with two strangers for a long time... idk. I feel a bit stupid for freaking out and could've used their help but better safe than sorry ..?
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Date: 18-05-2022 16:56
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Arthema wrote:
One thing that I know,
is that following your gut is almost ALWAYS the right better choice.
Did not exaggerate, better safe than sorry
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Date: 18-05-2022 17:04
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I think you ABSOLUTLEY did the right thing. It sound so scary, I would shit my pants in your place.
Date: 18-05-2022 17:06
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Alam wrote:
My faith is people is telling me he was probably just trying to help but I absolutely would have refused regardless, especially if you felt uncomfortable. Either way, having a stranger help me unpack my shit sounds awkward and embarrassing.
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Date: 18-05-2022 17:10
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Maris wrote:
Abby wrote:
One thing that I know,
is that following your gut is almost ALWAYS the right better choice.
Did not exaggerate, better safe than sorry
 ^^^^
100%
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Date: 18-05-2022 17:12
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5sar wrote:
he might have been trying to help but thats something you wouldnt have known and it was 100% better for you to make the choice and not let a random man come into your apartment when you are there by yourself so i dont think u overreacted i know alot of people would have done the same thing
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Date: 18-05-2022 17:17
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wug wrote:
Alam wrote:
My faith is people is telling me he was probably just trying to help but I absolutely would have refused regardless, especially if you felt uncomfortable. Either way, having a stranger help me unpack my shit sounds awkward and embarrassing.
depends on the country
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Date: 18-05-2022 17:18
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Alam wrote:
Fibraecataphyllolotlum wrote:
Alam wrote:
My faith is people is telling me he was probably just trying to help but I absolutely would have refused regardless, especially if you felt uncomfortable. Either way, having a stranger help me unpack my shit sounds awkward and embarrassing.
depends on the country
I think it would be a pretty normal thing to suggest here, everyone acts like they know each other.
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Date: 18-05-2022 17:19
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Solar wrote:
NOface wrote:
I think you ABSOLUTLEY did the right thing. It sound so scary, I would shit my pants in your place.
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Date: 18-05-2022 17:23
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devilcake wrote:
Overly cautious or not it doesn’t seem like it was worth the risk honestly
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Date: 18-05-2022 17:27
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wug wrote:
Alam wrote:
Fibraecataphyllolotlum wrote:
Alam wrote:
My faith is people is telling me he was probably just trying to help but I absolutely would have refused regardless, especially if you felt uncomfortable. Either way, having a stranger help me unpack my shit sounds awkward and embarrassing.
depends on the country
I think it would be a pretty normal thing to suggest here, everyone acts like they know each other.
yeah i just think the shadiness of it depends on what country it is 
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Date: 18-05-2022 17:37
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you did the right thing yes. i have watched too much true crime i would absolutely freak out lmao.. but im kinda paranoid so dont listen to me.

but better to be safe than sorry i guess
Date: 18-05-2022 17:45
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pups wrote:
thank you everyone for your feedback on this. I kept thinking I was stupid for saying no as I do need help but I'm sure I can get help from people I actually know and trust. I have heard way too many scary stories and so I always overthink certain situations.. and the way this guy went on about this in such a hurry kind of triggered something in me. I rlly hope he was being just nice and I did say thank you even tho I refused, but I feel like I did myself a big favor as I would have been so uncomfy if I had said yes and let them in. I have a hard time saying no, which is why I even considered letting him come back the second day.. even tho I most likely wouldn't be okay with it.. so I'm proud of myself for refusing it all in the end. =´) I was unsure earlier if I was rude and should've let them in but now I feel at ease with my decision 
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Date: 18-05-2022 18:14
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pups wrote:
I forgot to mention that when he called me to say that they can help today, and as I was refusing..they were ringing my door bell. I think thats what mostly freaked me out lmao, because why so eager?..I don't think they should have been ringing it as I still haven't said yes. yeah, I probably did what's best 
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Date: 18-05-2022 18:18
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Sobbing wrote:
naw u did the right thing
gut feeling isnt always right but in these cases its better to be safe than sorry because people can do all sorts of things

letting 2 strange men into ur apartment while ur alone is alarming and scary
u didnt overreact, u reacted reasonably
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Date: 18-05-2022 18:25
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Arthema wrote:
pups wrote:
I forgot to mention that when he called me to say that they can help today, and as I was refusing..they were ringing my door bell. I think thats what mostly freaked me out lmao, because why so eager?..I don't think they should have been ringing it as I still haven't said yes. yeah, I probably did what's best 
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first of all the audacity???
secondly yes you 100 did what's best
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Date: 18-05-2022 18:26
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