Sylvan wrote:Lituirchego wrote:Shared living is the worst imo. It's why I live alone.
Is there a genuine reason why she's struggling to keep the accommodation tidy? Is she depressed? Learning to live on her own for the first time? It's definitely worth having that kind of conversation, rather then just asking her to tidy. There are a plethora of reasons why she might be struggling and then you can offer reasonable solutions, like setting a 30min alarm as a quick tidy, every other day etc.
Then again, she might just be lazy.

honestly I don't give a shit.
She never joins others, and I saw her one time.
She only gives one word answers
'laura, can you please take out the trash' 'yes'
but then never follows through and just keeps ignoring the messages.
If you can't empty the trash every 4 or so weeks and do your own dishes, you shouldn't live in student housing.
She has been here for 2 semesters I think?
Or maybe she is struggling to adjust. Sounds a bit like depression to me. I still think you should reach out.