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Sylvan wrote:
yes I can hear my neighbor pee, no I didn't talk to anyone today.

During the week ppl are busy, on the weekend they are home or partying with friends they met before I moved in.

Trying to be more social made my anxiety worse, actually....


How about you? Are you happy with your social life?
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Date: 10-06-2022 20:20
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Yes but im not looking forward to the summer job cus im often very reserved when I don't know people lol. Its finewith friends but I struggle talking and asking abt stuff when its strangers, and esp if im unsure abt what to do at all times. Its not anxiety tho (it was anxiety before, but not anymore) but I just feel like bleh. Thats why I never rlly make friends at school n stuff like that, the friends I have I have gotten through other people pretty much, except some
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Date: 10-06-2022 20:29
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ouch wrote:
Yes but im not looking forward to the summer job cus im often very reserved when I don't know people lol. Its finewith friends but I struggle talking and asking abt stuff when its strangers, and esp if im unsure abt what to do at all times. Its not anxiety tho (it was anxiety before, but not anymore) but I just feel like bleh. Thats why I never rlly make friends at school n stuff like that, the friends I have I have gotten through other people pretty much, except some
With workin it's like school, you are forced to be around those people, they can't really escape you so it's not too bad, worst case they fire you but they probably won't because it takes time and money to train a new person.
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Date: 10-06-2022 20:32
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Sylvan wrote:
ouch wrote:
Yes but im not looking forward to the summer job cus im often very reserved when I don't know people lol. Its finewith friends but I struggle talking and asking abt stuff when its strangers, and esp if im unsure abt what to do at all times. Its not anxiety tho (it was anxiety before, but not anymore) but I just feel like bleh. Thats why I never rlly make friends at school n stuff like that, the friends I have I have gotten through other people pretty much, except some
With workin it's like school, you are forced to be around those people, they can't really escape you so it's not too bad, worst case they fire you but they probably won't because it takes time and money to train a new person.
Its just a summer job so its 4 weeks in total (tho boss said mby more if I did well etc lol, like getting a normal job there) and hes also getting paid back 50-75% of the salary hes gonna give me so not that expensive I guess 😭

I had a "job" at a cafe once for a few months (had much worse anxiety then tho) but I didn't get paid for it cus it wasn't like a normal job, I would have gotten paid if I was over 18 I think but I was 16 so. But anyways, the boss there said I worked very well etc but I am too reserved fr, but I just feel too awkward 
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Date: 10-06-2022 20:38
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Sylvan wrote:
ouch wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
ouch wrote:
Yes but im not looking forward to the summer job cus im often very reserved when I don't know people lol. Its finewith friends but I struggle talking and asking abt stuff when its strangers, and esp if im unsure abt what to do at all times. Its not anxiety tho (it was anxiety before, but not anymore) but I just feel like bleh. Thats why I never rlly make friends at school n stuff like that, the friends I have I have gotten through other people pretty much, except some
With workin it's like school, you are forced to be around those people, they can't really escape you so it's not too bad, worst case they fire you but they probably won't because it takes time and money to train a new person.
Its just a summer job so its 4 weeks in total (tho boss said mby more if I did well etc lol, like getting a normal job there) and hes also getting paid back 50-75% of the salary hes gonna give me so not that expensive I guess 😭

I had a "job" at a cafe once for a few months (had much worse anxiety then tho) but I didn't get paid for it cus it wasn't like a normal job, I would have gotten paid if I was over 18 I think but I was 16 so. But anyways, the boss there said I worked very well etc but I am too reserved fr, but I just feel too awkward 
it's at a gas station, if I remember correctly?

I think you don't need to be that extrovert and like people loving to work there as in a café
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Date: 10-06-2022 20:39
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ouch wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
ouch wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
With workin it's like school, you are forced to be around those people, they can't really escape you so it's not too bad, worst case they fire you but they probably won't because it takes time and money to train a new person.
Its just a summer job so its 4 weeks in total (tho boss said mby more if I did well etc lol, like getting a normal job there) and hes also getting paid back 50-75% of the salary hes gonna give me so not that expensive I guess 😭

I had a "job" at a cafe once for a few months (had much worse anxiety then tho) but I didn't get paid for it cus it wasn't like a normal job, I would have gotten paid if I was over 18 I think but I was 16 so. But anyways, the boss there said I worked very well etc but I am too reserved fr, but I just feel too awkward 
it's at a gas station, if I remember correctly?

I think you don't need to be that extrovert and like people loving to work there as in a café
yep its a gas station, or I guess mroe like a food place cus I think they make over 50% of their money on like burgers lol

True true, I also know a dude that knows two women that works there I think, and he said they are nice at least (I won't befiend them tho cus awkward). Also the boss is 25 (? Idunno, hes literally worked there since he was 13 I wanan cry) so that makes it less awkward mby, I feel like its easier to explain stuff to younger ppl. Tho I think older ppl r less intimidating, but I've seen an old ish lady that works there often when im there, and she seems nice at least so thats good
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Date: 10-06-2022 20:44
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absolutely not
Date: 10-06-2022 21:46
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thecellabration wrote:
i have zero energy for a social life all i can do is see my parents a few times a week and that's it
i have 1 friend in my town and i don't hang out with her ever anymore lol

but i get a lot of social stuff from my job. both with coworkers and customers. not the same thing but it's something.

it makes me feel v alone sometimes and i really miss being capable of doing more than this but when i try it feels worse so. this is life for me now ig
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Date: 10-06-2022 21:52
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Suchomimus wrote:
:[ not really i don't have even 1 friend, the only ppl i talk to are my family and even then not that much, but also i kinda like it bc honestly having friends is really overwhelming for me idk, i wish i could have friends, but i don't think i can bc having to talk to them all the time or go out w them is just too much
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Date: 10-06-2022 21:57
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bee wrote:
i miss having friends. every day. today has been a really good day, i went for a really nice walk, the weather was  beautiful, the sky was beautiful and i felt really good. all i could think about was how i wish i had someone to share the moment with 
its frustrating 
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Date: 10-06-2022 22:16
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I have over-socialized lately and I still got plans for tomorrow morning. But after that I'm going to hermit for at least a week to regain my social stamina and check in w myself. Otherwise, okay about how much I've socialized lately without dying from anxiety. Got a lot of that anxiety\stress vibes stuck in my body tho #gottadosomeyoga
Date: 10-06-2022 22:40 | Times changed: 1
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