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Pitbull wrote:
So to make a long story short. 

Someone very very close asked to come to this house warming/summer party, i said yes.

Then person ( 2 -4 days later) tells me and ask me if i can stay home because app they don't want me to come now.

And i got a bit idk annoyed and upset because - WHY would you even ask me for starters?? I know the one who holds the party so I have already replied to the invitation. 

Apparently its because he feels like its his job to make sure that I have a good time and "stuff" so it was hard for him to really let loose.
I have  never asked him to do anything like that?? and quite frankly, feels like something you'd do for a child, not a twenty-four something adult.  Like i can take care of myself jesus christ. 

So he's been trying to "make it up" to me because he called me and was like "hi, okay i realize that it was actually mean, you can still come" and stuff, however after this i just choose to decline everything since I obvi don't feel very much welcome after what he said. Got a few texts which was basically a "i know i was a dick ydaydaydaydya, can we talk, yadaydayaya, i cant change what happended yadyayaya, i still love u ydayayaya, i want u to come yadadad"

Should i:

Choose to just get over it and pretend this never happened in spite of it actually made me feel very shitty kinda? Like with the whole fucking him acting like edward the sparkling vampire and treating me like an actual child in this case.

or just give some space and time for now?
 
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Date: 14-06-2022 15:06 | Times changed: 1
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Pitbull wrote:
I'm not upset about being excluded at all, because i don't really care about it that much lol.
I find it frustrating that he even asked me for startes if that was how he felt. Like just don't ask then, what was the need. What made me upset and rubbed me the wrong way was that. 
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Date: 14-06-2022 15:07 | Times changed: 2
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Pitbull wrote:
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Date: 14-06-2022 15:34
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Pitbull wrote:
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Date: 15-06-2022 13:18
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Solar wrote:
oooh i'd probably stay mad abt this one and not go. idk i feel like it would be really awkward to still go bc there's going to be tension 

maybe u can talk it out w him and say ok it was very shitty of u to do & made me feel shitty, i'm not feeling like going anymore but this is not the end of our friendship -- or something like that, whatever feels right to u. i probably wouldn't ignore him though
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Date: 15-06-2022 13:23
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disposable wrote:
uew, that's not cool at all. is it his "party" or is it for someone else? if it's his, i would not go, if it's for someone else i would go 
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Date: 15-06-2022 14:33
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Pixel wrote:
I would probably go, have fun and ignore him all night lol
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Date: 15-06-2022 15:30
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Pitbull wrote:
disposable wrote:
uew, that's not cool at all. is it his "party" or is it for someone else? if it's his, i would not go, if it's for someone else i would go 
It's someone else, someone i actually know and have met quite a lot of times where he has been at same parties/functions. I think he even took the same uni course as I did at some point. 

I am debating, but I honestly just feel very much not so much welcome after the whole ordeal with the person im dealing with atm. 
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Date: 15-06-2022 18:11
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