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kagura wrote:
how long it has taken for you to meet your partner's friends and family? 

i've been with my guy for a year now. i mean it's vague, because we indeed planned only to be fbw, but what you expect to happen.. so now i've been offically in a relationship for few months and it's getting more and more serious 
so like meeting each other's friends and family hasn't been relevant before, but i think he's been kinda dropping some hints about that lately. and uuhhh. i just find that extemely unpleasant and awkward. i don't want to meet his friends, not even speaking about family. i really do not have good social skills, i don't even know how i managed to get myself neurotypically normal and mentally stable partner. meeting his normie friends? no thanks. 
if he wants to meet my friends for whatever reason then ok i guess, it's not like i have nothing to hide or that i'm ashamed of anyone. family is not gonna happen, i'm gonna tell my family about him if we get married someday 

i just feel like i'm alone with these thoughts. some of my friends has even brought like few night stand tinder dates on our get togethers. then i'm there like lmao no you can't meet my boyfriend 
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Date: 21-06-2022 21:10
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Sylvan wrote:
What partner
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Sylvan wrote:
What partner
Date: 21-06-2022 21:26
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Evey wrote:
the importance of meeting these friends/family members should maybe be determined by how often they are in his life. maybe start with letting one person tag along to something with you and your partner? maybe one of his friends. 

i feel like you might regret if you don't become part of that part of his life at all, but i understand that it sucks. 

i've met my partners families pretty fast because they have been family-people. they have only met my parents a few times though. 

i'm never 100% comfortable with the partners family. always pressured. it's weird to try and fuse those two parts of a persons life into one entity. i try to not make it a habbit tbh, to meet the parents or whatever. 
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Date: 21-06-2022 21:27
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kagura wrote:
Evey wrote:
the importance of meeting these friends/family members should maybe be determined by how often they are in his life. maybe start with letting one person tag along to something with you and your partner? maybe one of his friends. 

i feel like you might regret if you don't become part of that part of his life at all, but i understand that it sucks. 

i've met my partners families pretty fast because they have been family-people. they have only met my parents a few times though. 

i'm never 100% comfortable with the partners family. always pressured. it's weird to try and fuse those two parts of a persons life into one entity. i try to not make it a habbit tbh, to meet the parents or whatever. 
idk, he doesn't see his friends more than like 1-2 times in a month. depends. he's very introverted too, so it's not like his friends its big part of his life. also because they are adults with their own life, so yeah. 
rightnow he's on camping trip with his i guess bestfriend? they have known each others since they were kids. he doesn't live here, but i still assume he would be the first friend i would meet some day. i almost did already lol but then i just didn't bc i'm pussy 

yeah. i'm in good terms with my family, but i don't speak about my life with them at all. also my family is a mess, i don't wanna bring another person to that. i think it's same for him.
i guess he's friends with one of his sisters, they have some mutual hobbies they go in together, but idk if he talks about his personal life with her either or does she know about me 
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Date: 21-06-2022 21:42
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kagura wrote:
but i have to say based on everything he has told... i lowkey really wanna meet his dad  
i would totally go to mushroom hunting with his dad 
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