yeule wrote:atencia wrote:
i've done my own hair since covid, and though it doesn't look as great is if i were to go to the salon, i kinda prefer to do it myself now because 1) i can do it whenever i want, like i spontaneously just cut most of my hair off one night last year, which felt very freeing and like empowering honestly and 2) doing it myself i just feel like i'm the one in control of the situation, which makes me feel a lot more comfortable, even if the result isn't seamless
you described it perfectly like being in charge of yourself is the best way to feel, and when i used to get my hair done as well no one ever listened and i ended up feeling bad about it but now i can do it however i want it's really refreshing
exactly