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an honest help what do i do
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Bloodflowers wrote:
I went on 2 dates with this guy and we were going to meet last week or the week before that i don't remember
but i had a manic episode lmao
and ended up in the hospital 

I told him I was sick
but on the phone today i was like ok got to be honest i have an illness i was in the hospital for
but said nothing else
i'm just digging myself a hole here i feel like

do i keep avoiding the question if it comes up or am I honest??
it's a bit soon to explore my brain i feel like
we're going to meet next week
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Date: 12-07-2022 19:25
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Bloodflowers wrote:
why does my brain decide to do the crazy when i don't have time for it
i also missed a concert I was supposed to go to
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Date: 12-07-2022 19:32
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Evey wrote:
depends on how he reacted on the notice i think (of you having an illness and all that you told him). also depends on how serious it's getting. if you want a meaningful relationship, or the possibility of such a thing, can be a good idea to open up a lil bit (but maybe not blurt out everything all at once as well)

not talking from experience though, but i guess one can draw parallells between anything that is a sensitive topic and when to bring it up when dating
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Date: 12-07-2022 19:38
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Bloodflowers wrote:
idk why it's funny to think im going on a date but instead im manic in the psych emergency room asking all of the patients if they want to play a card game
life being like a date? that doesn't sound like you
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Date: 12-07-2022 19:38
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Evey wrote:
depends on how he reacted on the notice i think (of you having an illness and all that you told him). also depends on how serious it's getting. if you want a meaningful relationship, or the possibility of such a thing, can be a good idea to open up a lil bit (but maybe not blurt out everything all at once as well)

not talking from experience though, but i guess one can draw parallells between anything that is a sensitive topic and when to bring it up when dating
he said oh no poor you or something like that
idk yet it's still really new
but i'm also thinking like if he can't accept i have bipolar now he probably won't later but idk
i also want him to get to know the real me before the me that i am when i am sick
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Bloodflowers wrote:
bump
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Date: 12-07-2022 20:24
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
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Date: 12-07-2022 20:42
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bee wrote:
im always open about my mental illnesses when i meet new people. in the long run its just easier that way. but you dont need to tell him things youre not ready to talk about 
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Date: 12-07-2022 21:08
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Bloodflowers wrote:
bee wrote:
im always open about my mental illnesses when i meet new people. in the long run its just easier that way. but you dont need to tell him things youre not ready to talk about 
i'm just worried about scaring him off it seems like everyone has their own idea of what it's like
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Date: 12-07-2022 21:20
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Versailles wrote:
If he asks anything, be open about it. If not you can give it a bit time before telling, but you gotta open up at some point if it's getting serious.
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Date: 12-07-2022 22:06
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Versailles wrote:
If he asks anything, be open about it. If not you can give it a bit time before telling, but you gotta open up at some point if it's getting serious.
true
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Date: 14-07-2022 18:33
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