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low empathy?
Abbys
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Abbys wrote:
do i have low empathy?

i know that i'm certainly capable of feeling empathy but i wonder if i have lower empathy than the average person.

i don't like admitting to this because this isn't something i do anymore but i have also been incredibly mean to people online just for my own entertainment. i used to stalk someone over 3+ years on a popular streaming website. why? because i thought it was funny at that time. it started out that way anyways then it became an obsession (i'm being VERY generous to myself when describing this).

i also suspect that i have lower empathy when i compare my reaction vs other people reaction to news events. it's very difficult for me to feel bad for or empathize with people i don't know.

how can i improve and become more empathic? the fact that i acknowledge that low empathy is a flaw and i'm genuinely hoping to change proves that i'm not that bad of a person.

and the hard part is that, i want to 'stop myself' from doing harm out of the goodness of my heart and not for selfish reasons. i want to be a good person and not just a "bad person" who doesn't do harm, if that makes sense. any advice for me?
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Date: 21-07-2022 17:48
ArianaGrande
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ArianaGrande wrote:
i wanna say sum so bad but i cant cus it will offend vp, aka i have low sympathy instead wow
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Date: 21-07-2022 17:49
Parasite
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Parasite wrote:
I don't think you can ever truly change nature. All I can say is seek professional help, they know the answers not VPers. 
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Date: 21-07-2022 17:54
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Kofod wrote:
If you think you have low empathy and it seems to be an actual issue to you, then probably you should seek actual help that can also give you the answers you want and need.
I don't think anyone on VP is qualified enough or know you well enough to decide if you have low empathy from what you wrote - since it doesn't give a full picture of you as a person.
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Date: 21-07-2022 17:54
Parasite
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Parasite wrote:
Kofod wrote:
If you think you have low empathy and it seems to be an actual issue to you, then probably you should seek actual help that can also give you the answers you want and need.
I don't think anyone on VP is qualified enough or know you well enough to decide if you have low empathy from what you wrote - since it doesn't give a full picture of you as a person.
^This. They did display it in yesterday's thread, but considering it's a troll that's not even enough to say "Yeah, this may be real."
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Date: 21-07-2022 17:55
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autism wrote:
why would low empathy make one mean
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Date: 21-07-2022 17:57
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Suchomimus wrote:
hmm wrote:
i wanna say sum so bad but i cant cus it will offend vp, aka i have low sympathy instead wow
im 23 n i still don't know the difference between sympathy n empathy
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Date: 21-07-2022 17:57
ArianaGrande
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ArianaGrande wrote:
Suchomimus wrote:
hmm wrote:
i wanna say sum so bad but i cant cus it will offend vp, aka i have low sympathy instead wow
im 23 n i still don't know the difference between sympathy n empathy
empathy you "feel" what others feel, sympathy u feel FOR others
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Date: 21-07-2022 17:58
Abbys
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Abbys wrote:
Parasite wrote:
Kofod wrote:
If you think you have low empathy and it seems to be an actual issue to you, then probably you should seek actual help that can also give you the answers you want and need.
I don't think anyone on VP is qualified enough or know you well enough to decide if you have low empathy from what you wrote - since it doesn't give a full picture of you as a person.
^This. They did display it in yesterday's thread, but considering it's a troll that's not even enough to say "Yeah, this may be real."
yesterday's thread?

that thread has nothing to do with this thread. just because i don't like a certain type of humour doesn't say anything about my empathy levels
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Date: 21-07-2022 17:58
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Suchomimus wrote:
hmm wrote:
Suchomimus wrote:
hmm wrote:
i wanna say sum so bad but i cant cus it will offend vp, aka i have low sympathy instead wow
im 23 n i still don't know the difference between sympathy n empathy
empathy you "feel" what others feel, sympathy u feel FOR others
i really think i don't have a brain at this point
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Date: 21-07-2022 17:59
ArianaGrande
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ArianaGrande wrote:
Suchomimus wrote:
hmm wrote:
Suchomimus wrote:
im 23 n i still don't know the difference between sympathy n empathy
empathy you "feel" what others feel, sympathy u feel FOR others
i really think i don't have a brain at this point
 i feel really awful abt being like haha i don't care abt ppl bc turns out i do and i just don't focus on that at all because i am exceptionally self centred oouf
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Date: 21-07-2022 18:00
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Kofod wrote:
Abbys wrote:
Parasite wrote:
Kofod wrote:
If you think you have low empathy and it seems to be an actual issue to you, then probably you should seek actual help that can also give you the answers you want and need.
I don't think anyone on VP is qualified enough or know you well enough to decide if you have low empathy from what you wrote - since it doesn't give a full picture of you as a person.
^This. They did display it in yesterday's thread, but considering it's a troll that's not even enough to say "Yeah, this may be real."
yesterday's thread?

that thread has nothing to do with this thread. just because i don't like a certain type of humour doesn't say anything about my empathy levels
But the way you go about it might tell more than you think.
I wasn't there yesterday, so I'm not sure how everyone was acting and writing.
But it might be more relevant than you think, possibly 
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Date: 21-07-2022 18:00
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autism wrote:
Suchomimus wrote:
hmm wrote:
Suchomimus wrote:
im 23 n i still don't know the difference between sympathy n empathy
empathy you "feel" what others feel, sympathy u feel FOR others
i really think i don't have a brain at this point
no you have elite brain only elite brain doesn't understand the difference between sympathy and empathy
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Date: 21-07-2022 18:01
ArianaGrande
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ArianaGrande wrote:
hmm wrote:
Suchomimus wrote:
hmm wrote:
empathy you "feel" what others feel, sympathy u feel FOR others
i really think i don't have a brain at this point
 i feel really awful abt being like haha i don't care abt ppl bc turns out i do and i just don't focus on that at all because i am exceptionally self centred oouf
im not even self centred actually i'm so deep into derealization since i was a mere child that's the problem
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Date: 21-07-2022 18:01
Parasite
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Parasite wrote:
Abbys wrote:
Parasite wrote:
Kofod wrote:
If you think you have low empathy and it seems to be an actual issue to you, then probably you should seek actual help that can also give you the answers you want and need.
I don't think anyone on VP is qualified enough or know you well enough to decide if you have low empathy from what you wrote - since it doesn't give a full picture of you as a person.
^This. They did display it in yesterday's thread, but considering it's a troll that's not even enough to say "Yeah, this may be real."
yesterday's thread?

that thread has nothing to do with this thread. just because i don't like a certain type of humour doesn't say anything about my empathy levels
That is literally not why and I also said it's not nearly enough to judge you on. I can't know that much about you through the internet.
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Date: 21-07-2022 18:02
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Suchomimus wrote:
autism wrote:
Suchomimus wrote:
hmm wrote:
empathy you "feel" what others feel, sympathy u feel FOR others
i really think i don't have a brain at this point
no you have elite brain only elite brain doesn't understand the difference between sympathy and empathy
yes i agree
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Date: 21-07-2022 18:02
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