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Rhaella wrote:
for getting involved with a coworker?? 

he is super sweet and seems genuinely interested in me, but can these things ever work out really. it's a huge risk if things go wrong.

//edit: turns out, i indeed was stupid. 
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Date: 04-09-2022 14:49 | Times changed: 1
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Pitbull wrote:
i'd just not mix both
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Date: 04-09-2022 14:49
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Rhaella wrote:
Pitbull wrote:
i'd just not mix both
this has been my principle as well, but then i ended up on a walk of shame from his place after an after work event... oops

luckily we are not on the same team
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Date: 04-09-2022 14:56
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MasileinDE wrote:
maybe not helpful in this situation, but I remember at that one internship I had, the ladies I worked with would be talking about that one dude who started working there after his divorce and one just said "I don't know, he's nice to look at" and the three other ones immediately shouted "Don't fuck the company!". it's apparently a ritual they do everytime one of them finds a guy at work they like because they've all been burned by bad work relationships
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Date: 04-09-2022 14:56
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MasileinDE wrote:
but also said: it can work if you both manage to compartmentalise your work relationship and your private one. it just takes a lot of work
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Date: 04-09-2022 14:57
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Rhaella wrote:
MasileinDE wrote:
maybe not helpful in this situation, but I remember at that one internship I had, the ladies I worked with would be talking about that one dude who started working there after his divorce and one just said "I don't know, he's nice to look at" and the three other ones immediately shouted "Don't fuck the company!". it's apparently a ritual they do everytime one of them finds a guy at work they like because they've all been burned by bad work relationships
hah, i love that those ladies had each other's backs like that! i need a work bestie to talk some sense into me
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Date: 04-09-2022 14:59
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Pigeon wrote:
I would think love is more important than my job at the moment, so i might give it a shot. But it depends on your situation

I have hooked up with a coworker tho, but that was nothing serious and we don't talk about it anymore, so it doesnt influence our jobs
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Date: 04-09-2022 15:02
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Rhaella wrote:
we've been seeing each other for like a month now, and so far so good. we occasionally work in the same project, so we do not need to interact at work on a daily basis. and we work remotely most of the time.

so far the hardest thing has been sneaking out after work together without being seen, or just generally trying to act like there's nothing between us so that no one else suspects anything.
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Date: 04-09-2022 15:02
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Pigeon wrote:
Rhaella wrote:
we've been seeing each other for like a month now, and so far so good. we occasionally work in the same project, so we do not need to interact at work on a daily basis. and we work remotely most of the time.

so far the hardest thing has been sneaking out after work together without being seen, or just generally trying to act like there's nothing between us so that no one else suspects anything.
If you do not work on the same project very often it will not be awkward if it is over right? You would be able to avoid each other easily

Sounds like it is going well between you two
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Date: 04-09-2022 15:03
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Versailles wrote:
lmao i also didnt want to date coworker because scared if things doesnt go well it might be awkward. But my coworker and i got together and living together wooops. It's risky but it might work out? But I think it's not the end of the world if you both aint a fit afterall.
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Date: 04-09-2022 15:07
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Rhaella wrote:
Pigeon wrote:
Rhaella wrote:
we've been seeing each other for like a month now, and so far so good. we occasionally work in the same project, so we do not need to interact at work on a daily basis. and we work remotely most of the time.

so far the hardest thing has been sneaking out after work together without being seen, or just generally trying to act like there's nothing between us so that no one else suspects anything.
If you do not work on the same project very often it will not be awkward if it is over right? You would be able to avoid each other easily

Sounds like it is going well between you two
depends on how and why things would end, but being professional is no problem for me. and yes, avoiding each other would be easy if necessary
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Date: 04-09-2022 15:09
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Rhaella wrote:
of course i am generally worried about getting hurt again, but him being a coworker brings another layer of pressure and fear. like having to explain to everyone else we work with and being the topic of workplace gossip

though sneaking around is kinda fun and makes me feel like a teen again lol
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Date: 04-09-2022 15:11
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Arthema wrote:
Like, it is possible and some people made and make it work?
but not everyone can do it, just like many other things.
But hey, if you really want it, why not? idk I know I'd at least try
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Date: 04-09-2022 15:13
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Rhaella wrote:
Versailles wrote:
lmao i also didnt want to date coworker because scared if things doesnt go well it might be awkward. But my coworker and i got together and living together wooops. It's risky but it might work out? But I think it's not the end of the world if you both aint a fit afterall.
how did people at your work react? nice to hear you found a way to make it work tho!
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Date: 04-09-2022 15:25
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Versailles wrote:
Rhaella wrote:
Versailles wrote:
lmao i also didnt want to date coworker because scared if things doesnt go well it might be awkward. But my coworker and i got together and living together wooops. It's risky but it might work out? But I think it's not the end of the world if you both aint a fit afterall.
how did people at your work react? nice to hear you found a way to make it work tho!
So i ended up making out with him at a party which one of my coworker hosted, I had huge hangover anxiety and later told my boss (she's cool so i'm open abt most things) abt it and how i'm anxious since I don't remember shit. We just laughed abt it and said it happens. 

Thought it was one time case but we started dating and meet up to the bookstore where we work together just to say hi to our coworkers since we already was at the mall. They got suspicous etc that we date lmaoo. Later my bf was working with someone else (not me that day) and they just chatted and she asked like how things been with him and he said he got a girlfriend, and she said like ''who, got a pic??'' and he looked at her and was like, you know her. She got confused and asked, oh?? and he said ''she's your coworker'' and honestly she was v surprised lolol. Everyone was positive abt that and thought it was fun. 

Also it's more chill when we work together now than before, but it's because we've been together 7 months and live together and had no issues that we didn't solve. 
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Date: 04-09-2022 15:37
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Uh, that situation is always tricky but I believe if you are both adults and able to talk it out and stay on good term if things don't work out, you good.
Date: 04-09-2022 15:37
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