Clegane wrote:
Y'all my blind date went genuinely well
He's 24 years old so that was a bit weird for me seeing as all the men that have tried to pursue me were in their 30s, so it's just a bit new that this is a guy my age wow
And he's the first guy not in the medical field, he's a police officer
And he's tall and blond and has brown eyes wowow
But oh my god
So we pretty much spent the whole afternoon talking nonstop, we never ran out of topics
(E.g. he's the first person I met irl that also likes sphinx cats)
Then we watched the 2nd and 3rd part of conjuring till like 1am and he tried getting closer to me physically which was nice (putting his hand next to mine)
Anyways after the movies he kissed me and tried to like, get dirty.
But he realized I wasn't into it and he legit stopped??? Wow! Wow!! This is so amazing like my heart is so happy because of it??? All the men I was with were just doing their thing while I was basically being a starfish
But he was like he noticed I couldn't let go and I kept having to think of something and he said he doesn't get pleasure if his partner doesn't enjoy it either
We spent the next few hours deeptalking and he suggested I start trauma therapy and honestly he was really intelligent and kind about it too and told me things I haven't thought about in that way before
and when I fell asleep he just cuddled with me and every once in a while kissed the top of my head
This was such a genuinely pleasant experience.
I'm very happy I didn't chicken out and called the date off.
Y'all my blind date went genuinely well
He's 24 years old so that was a bit weird for me seeing as all the men that have tried to pursue me were in their 30s, so it's just a bit new that this is a guy my age wow
And he's the first guy not in the medical field, he's a police officer
And he's tall and blond and has brown eyes wowow
But oh my god
So we pretty much spent the whole afternoon talking nonstop, we never ran out of topics
(E.g. he's the first person I met irl that also likes sphinx cats)
Then we watched the 2nd and 3rd part of conjuring till like 1am and he tried getting closer to me physically which was nice (putting his hand next to mine)
Anyways after the movies he kissed me and tried to like, get dirty.
But he realized I wasn't into it and he legit stopped??? Wow! Wow!! This is so amazing like my heart is so happy because of it??? All the men I was with were just doing their thing while I was basically being a starfish
But he was like he noticed I couldn't let go and I kept having to think of something and he said he doesn't get pleasure if his partner doesn't enjoy it either
We spent the next few hours deeptalking and he suggested I start trauma therapy and honestly he was really intelligent and kind about it too and told me things I haven't thought about in that way before
and when I fell asleep he just cuddled with me and every once in a while kissed the top of my head
This was such a genuinely pleasant experience.
I'm very happy I didn't chicken out and called the date off.