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Bloodflowers wrote:
and he took it surpisingly well. We even said we would continue to be friends. But I feel a bit sad? that it didn't work out. I said I wanted to be with a girl and that I didn't see us working out for that reason. We're going to meet up tomorrow as planned and take a walk.
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Date: 05-10-2022 16:04
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Rouya wrote:
hope the walk goes well
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Date: 05-10-2022 16:06
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Rouya wrote:
hope the walk goes well
me too
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Date: 05-10-2022 16:07
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Bloodflowers wrote:
He deleted me off of tinder less than an hour after. It's none of my business if he wants to find someone new because I don't want to be with him. But weird saying he loved me and wanted to move in in the future and jokes about marriage and then immidietly after go on tinder. Makes me feel like he was just in love with the idea of me but I've felt that way before too.
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Date: 05-10-2022 17:10
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Barbarella wrote:
He sounds like a mature, and emotionally secure person who recognizes your mismatched wants/needs are not a reflection on either of you personally.
I'm glad it went well.
you shouldn't feel bad, he doesn't want you to feel bad - you saved him future heartache by being mature and handling this before it got too far.
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Date: 05-10-2022 17:13
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Barbarella wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
He deleted me off of tinder less than an hour after. It's none of my business if he wants to find someone new because I don't want to be with him. But weird saying he loved me and wanted to move in in the future and jokes about marriage and then immidietly after go on tinder. Makes me feel like he was just in love with the idea of me but I've felt that way before too.
the last guy I went out with from tinder was like that too.
I could immediately tell he was more in love with the idea of having a partner, than me as an actual person.

it probably has very little to do with the idea of "you" specifically, but he wants a "someone"
sounds like it wasn't going to be a good match and you knew it in your gut, I'm glad you're taking care of yourself.
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Date: 05-10-2022 17:15
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
He deleted me off of tinder less than an hour after. It's none of my business if he wants to find someone new because I don't want to be with him. But weird saying he loved me and wanted to move in in the future and jokes about marriage and then immidietly after go on tinder. Makes me feel like he was just in love with the idea of me but I've felt that way before too.
the last guy I went out with from tinder was like that too.
I could immediately tell he was more in love with the idea of having a partner, than me as an actual person.

it probably has very little to do with the idea of "you" specifically, but he wants a "someone"
sounds like it wasn't going to be a good match and you knew it in your gut, I'm glad you're taking care of yourself.
Yea I’m glad we broke up especially after seeing him trying to replace me so quickly. Hope he finds someone though
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Babel wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
He deleted me off of tinder less than an hour after. It's none of my business if he wants to find someone new because I don't want to be with him. But weird saying he loved me and wanted to move in in the future and jokes about marriage and then immidietly after go on tinder. Makes me feel like he was just in love with the idea of me but I've felt that way before too.
Sometimes it's just nice after a break up to see your options. It might not mean he isn't healing and hurting from the break up or doesn't actually love you, but just that he's opening up to moving on.

There's a big difference between being active on Tinder and actually going out with people you met.
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Date: 06-10-2022 12:48
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Sobbing wrote:
DeIure wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
He deleted me off of tinder less than an hour after. It's none of my business if he wants to find someone new because I don't want to be with him. But weird saying he loved me and wanted to move in in the future and jokes about marriage and then immidietly after go on tinder. Makes me feel like he was just in love with the idea of me but I've felt that way before too.
Sometimes it's just nice after a break up to see your options. It might not mean he isn't healing and hurting from the break up or doesn't actually love you, but just that he's opening up to moving on.

There's a big difference between being active on Tinder and actually going out with people you met.
i also think it depends on the time u were together
if it was a long relationship id find it weird to see an ex on tinder like a day after
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Bloodflowers wrote:
He asked me if I would have anything against him seeing someone new soon so he went on tinder not even an hour after we broke up to look for someone new. Makes me sad that it seems like he feels he must have a romantic relationship.
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Date: 06-10-2022 16:46
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Bloodflowers wrote:
DeIure wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
He deleted me off of tinder less than an hour after. It's none of my business if he wants to find someone new because I don't want to be with him. But weird saying he loved me and wanted to move in in the future and jokes about marriage and then immidietly after go on tinder. Makes me feel like he was just in love with the idea of me but I've felt that way before too.
Sometimes it's just nice after a break up to see your options. It might not mean he isn't healing and hurting from the break up or doesn't actually love you, but just that he's opening up to moving on.

There's a big difference between being active on Tinder and actually going out with people you met.
He seems to be looking for someone. Says he removed me from tinder so that whoever he was seeing next wouldn’t see it
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Sobbing wrote:
DeIure wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
He deleted me off of tinder less than an hour after. It's none of my business if he wants to find someone new because I don't want to be with him. But weird saying he loved me and wanted to move in in the future and jokes about marriage and then immidietly after go on tinder. Makes me feel like he was just in love with the idea of me but I've felt that way before too.
Sometimes it's just nice after a break up to see your options. It might not mean he isn't healing and hurting from the break up or doesn't actually love you, but just that he's opening up to moving on.

There's a big difference between being active on Tinder and actually going out with people you met.
i also think it depends on the time u were together
if it was a long relationship id find it weird to see an ex on tinder like a day after
Only about 6 months but it sounded like he was really planning on a future for us two
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Date: 06-10-2022 16:50
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Bloodflowers wrote:
But on a more positive note we both want to stay friends
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Date: 06-10-2022 19:17
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bunbon wrote:
I went off tinder pretty frequently when I broke up before, I needed some sort of validation and self esteem boost that tinder always gives me. I feel like that it's like that for many guys.
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Date: 06-10-2022 19:21
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bunbon wrote:
Anyway, I hope the best for both of you!
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Date: 06-10-2022 19:23
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Bloodflowers wrote:
bunbon wrote:
I went off tinder pretty frequently when I broke up before, I needed some sort of validation and self esteem boost that tinder always gives me. I feel like that it's like that for many guys.
I’ve felt that way before too
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Date: 06-10-2022 19:45
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